I’ve got a confession: I’m not great at social media. I mean, really not great. Sure, I have a Facebook account for personal and professional use, a Twitter handle, and an Instagram, but honestly, I struggle to keep up with them all. Why? Because I’m juggling the unpredictable chaos that comes with raising a toddler and managing a busy life. I keep these apps on my phone, but I avoid opening them in front of my daughter. I want to be genuinely present for her and instill that same quality in her. Plus, let’s be real—she doesn’t need to see the latest Game of Thrones memes or random political rants.
So, when a close friend recently called me out for my “absence” on their Facebook page, I felt a wave of sadness wash over me. It stung a little. Just because I haven’t liked your recent photo, commented on your status, or shared your funny meme doesn’t mean I don’t appreciate it. It doesn’t indicate that I’m upset with you or that our friendship is in jeopardy. It’s simply a lapse of attention, an oversight in the whirlwind of my daily life. Your posts might get buried in my feed, and I might miss them altogether.
I’m not trying to make excuses; I’m just being real. I want you to know that I care about you deeply, and I hope you won’t take my social media absence too personally.
Let’s face it: social media has transformed the way we connect. When you share snapshots of your new home or a fun brunch, it’s because you want to stay connected with your loved ones. You crave that closeness, and I totally get that. I understand the desire for immediate recognition in our fast-paced lives. We all want to feel valued and accepted; I feel that too. It’s disheartening when I pour my heart into a post and get crickets in return.
But the idea that “likes” on social media equate to genuine affection or support is, in my opinion, a flawed notion. It’s a product of our new digital age, and while it may seem harmless, it can cause unnecessary stress. The pressure to conform to this “like culture” feels like a throwback to high school, and, honestly, I’m over it. I didn’t enjoy the politics of high school friendships, and I certainly don’t want to relive that.
I genuinely care about you and your life—your family, achievements, aspirations, and even your birthday celebrations. However, social media has become overwhelming. The habitual need for likes, shares, and comments can dilute their true meaning. Just because I didn’t engage doesn’t mean I don’t care—far from it!
So, I apologize if my silence on social media has given you the wrong impression. Sometimes I’m just busy, whether it’s playing at the park with my daughter, cooking dinner, or working during the day. This is not a reflection of our friendship. It doesn’t mean I thought your latest story was boring or your vacation photos weren’t beautiful. Life can be chaotic, and sometimes my only “me time” is spent in the bathroom, and believe me, that’s not the ideal place for a heartfelt conversation!
How about we agree to communicate in more personal ways? Instead of relying on social media to keep up with each other, let’s text or chat directly. I value you, I love you, and I want to show that in real life, not just through a screen.
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In summary, while social media can be a tool for connection, it shouldn’t dictate the depth of our friendships. Let’s prioritize meaningful conversations over likes and shares.