As I navigate my mid-40s, the concept of “cool” has definitely evolved over the years. The other day, while I was sorting through my kitchen utensils (I promise, I’m getting to the cool part), I caught myself humming along to a catchy alt-rock tune that I’ve had stuck in my head. I know every word. Yes, I am indeed that cool. In fact, I’m convinced I’ve leveled up in coolness compared to 10 years ago. Here’s how:
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I Can Sing Every Panic! At the Disco Song
A decade ago, my music library was likely dominated by kids’ songs. Sure, I still have a soft spot for those catchy tunes, but now my car is filled with music my teenagers enjoy—no more songs about dinosaurs or trains.
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I Understand Fashion Better
In my 30s, I had a hard time figuring out what was age-appropriate to wear. Now, as a mom of teens, I receive unfiltered opinions on my outfits. My daughters are quick to inform me what looks stylish and what’s a total fashion faux pas.
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Dangly Earrings? Yes, Please!
Growing up in the ’80s, I loved big earrings, but once I had little ones, I had to pack them away to avoid any toddler-related accidents. Now that my kids are older, I can rock my favorite earrings without worrying about them being yanked off!
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I Enjoy Quality TV Shows
I’ve traded in cartoons for iconic series like ‘The Big Bang Theory’ and Netflix binges of ‘Mad Men.’ I’ve even dabbled in popular series like Game of Thrones—though with children under 15 at home, I have to be cautious about what I watch. No more Phineas and Ferb for me!
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My Bras Are Simpler
Gone are the days of nursing bras with flaps. Now, I only need to take my bra off completely, which is a liberating experience without the worry of any spills.
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No More Spit-Up Stains
Thank goodness! My wardrobe is now free from the remnants of baby spit-up. What a relief!
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I Dive into Bestselling Books
With all the waiting I do for school drop-offs and extracurricular activities, I’ve turned my car into a reading nook. I’ve been devouring all the latest bestsellers—no pictures needed.
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Trendy Styles Are Back in Fashion
High-waisted jeans? Check. Leggings? Done that. Off-the-shoulder tops? Oh yes! It’s fun to revisit styles that I loved in my younger years.
I genuinely feel cooler now than I did a decade ago, and when I think back on my 30s, I was definitely cooler than in my 20s. Even with my wild hair and youthful tan in my teenage years, I was merely honing my coolness. Like a fine wine, I seem to improve with age. I’m excited about what the next decade will bring!
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In summary, I’ve matured into a cooler version of myself over the past decade, embracing new music, fashion advice from my kids, and the freedom that comes with having older children. Here’s to the next exciting chapter ahead!
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