Updated: November 8, 2018
Originally Published: June 10, 2015
- Communicate About Your Arrival
If you’re running late, don’t wait until the last second to let her know. Imagine you’re doing those last few chin-ups, and just as you think you can finish, someone yells for more. Frustrating, right? Your partner deserves a heads-up to manage her expectations and not feel like she’s hanging on for dear life. - Get Inside Quickly
When you return home, prioritize getting in the door over chatting with the neighbor about the new baby. Your wife has likely been juggling the baby, mentally counting down the minutes until relief arrives. Assume it’s a chaotic scene inside, and step in to give her a much-needed break. - Show Enthusiasm for Your Baby
Even if you’re smitten with your little one, your partner might feel overwhelmed. A simple statement like, “I’ve missed our baby all day! Go take a shower while I hold him,” can encourage her to take some time for herself. It’s a win for everyone involved. - Skip the Dinner Query
When you arrive home, asking “What’s for dinner?” can be a huge misstep. If everyone is still breathing, consider it a victory. Instead, be flexible: whip up some cereal, order takeout, or even drink some pumped breastmilk. Just wing it! - Avoid Comparing Days
No matter how challenging your day was—whether you faced angry gorillas or not—your partner’s day likely surpassed yours in difficulty. It’s best to keep your struggles to yourself and avoid opening up a conversation that could lead to tension. Remember, she’s the one who’s likely been up all night caring for your little one. - Don’t Call It Babysitting
Slip-ups like saying you’re “babysitting” can lead to major backlash. Any mother who’s had any sleep will likely correct you with a sharp “You’re not babysitting; you’re parenting.” Instead, use terms like “Daddy duty” or “on call” to keep things smooth. - Avoid Overhead Baby Lifts
When holding the baby above you, be cautious—infants have a knack for vomiting unexpectedly. While it might seem fun, you could end up with a surprise shower of baby food. They’re unpredictable little grenades! - Be the Unsung Hero
Fathers often find themselves sidelined while the focus is on the baby and mom. Don’t stress about it—embrace your role like a covert operative. Do small but meaningful tasks quietly, whether it’s grabbing a glass of water or making sure a relative doesn’t get too close to the baby. Your efforts may go unnoticed at first, but in time, you’ll be appreciated for your contributions.
Your role during these early months is crucial. Some dads hit the ground running, and to them, I say, “Bravo!” Being the steady hand and source of support for your partner, who might feel overwhelmed and worn out, is essential. The toughest times often come at night, so showing up with dinner and offering to take the baby for a walk can make all the difference.
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Summary
Surviving the early days of fatherhood involves clear communication, being proactive at home, and offering support to your partner. Embrace your role, avoid common pitfalls, and remember that the little things you do will make a significant impact.
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