Ah, summer in the suburbs—a time filled with sun, fun, and that awkward ritual of swimsuit shopping. After years of donning stretched-out bikini tops paired with baggy shorts while using my little ones as shields, it was finally time to invest in my very first mom swimsuit.
With my kids safely at home (trust me, don’t bring them along), I headed to the mall bright and early on a Saturday morning. The journey wasn’t glamorous, but after hours of trying on numerous suits, I emerged victorious with a chic black one-piece that offers full coverage and even gives the illusion of curves. Score! And yes, I picked up a stylish cover-up too.
After wrestling with various suits that just didn’t cut it, I noticed a pattern in what worked and what didn’t (goodbye, bikinis!). While everyone’s body and workout regimes vary, here are some invaluable tips I gathered to help you find a mom suit without any of the dread.
1. Supportive Straps
Extra support is crucial, especially when gravity starts to take its toll. If you have young kids who love to “visit” your chest for nostalgic reasons, a strapless option might not be your best bet. I briefly tried on a sleek strapless swimsuit but quickly imagined my 3-year-old tugging it down to say hello to the “nursies” in front of everyone at the pool. No thanks!
2. Full Coverage (Skirt Optional)
Let’s be honest; I never wanted a skirted swimsuit. I’ve always preferred board shorts, even if the end result is similar. However, I was pleasantly surprised to find that many adult swimsuits provide ample coverage. Plus, I found some cute skirt styles that are far from the floral nightmares of my childhood. Sorry, Grandma!
3. Stick to Solids
While I appreciate a good pattern, they can be overwhelming and distracting. If you’re like me and haven’t touched a thigh machine since your 20s, opt for solid colors or sleek color blocks. I ended up with a classic black swimsuit, but don’t let my somber choice stifle your style. If I could have found a retro red halter in my size, I would have snapped it up in a heartbeat!
4. Consider Some Sparkle and Flattering Details
Surprisingly, adding a bit of bling can elevate a mom suit. I spotted several elegant gold clasps and tasteful frills that added flair without being over the top. Most importantly, don’t underestimate the power of ruching! It hides the fact that the last time you did a sit-up was by accident. Ruching lets you indulge in your child’s leftover pool pizza without worrying about a muffin top. Need I say more about ruching?
5. Embrace Your Current Shape
You can break any of my other rules, but don’t forget this one: we can’t turn back time. Most of us don’t have the bodies we did in our 20s—unless you’re a celebrity with a personal trainer or can afford Gwyneth Paltrow’s juice cleanse. But don’t despair; you can still rock the body you have today. Instead of searching for a suit that makes you look perfect, focus on one that highlights your favorite features and let go of the rest. If you can embrace this mindset, you’re bound to have a blast at the pool this summer—and in life!
Now, where did I stash that cover-up?
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Summary
Summer brings the challenge of finding the right swimsuit, especially for moms. By focusing on supportive straps, full coverage, solid colors, stylish details, and embracing your current body shape, you can find a suit that flatters and boosts your confidence. Don’t stress about perfection; prioritize comfort and fun this season!
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