Even more fascinating than the breakdancing moves were those intriguing little boxes with joysticks labeled “ATARI.” Max had video games. Until that summer, I had never experienced them myself. One day, Max settled in close to me, a shy smile playing on his lips as he turned on the TV and said, “This is called ‘Pac-Man.’” I was completely enthralled—not only by the game but also by the boy. Pac-Man offered such a gratifying experience. All I had to do was guide this little yellow character through winding tunnels, gobbling up dots while dodging four mischievous ghosts with whimsical names that could have come from a Shel Silverstein poem: Blinky, Pinky, Inky, and Clyde.
July whisked us away into two contrasting worlds. One was filled with high scores and sweat-drenched joysticks, where I sat shoulder to shoulder with Max, laughing and competing fiercely. The other was outside in Baton Rouge, where I explored lush neighborhoods with my mom, my aunt, and Max’s mom, embarking on mini-adventures. Max’s family introduced me to a lifestyle I found utterly captivating: his younger siblings ran around in the nude, musical instruments were strewn across their cozy home (including a piano plunked right in the living room, often occupied by a child furiously playing), and Max’s mom frequently nursed a baby. Max himself was carefree, wearing only shorts and sporting that quintessential ’80s shaggy hair. I thought he was absolutely charming.
As August rolled in, we continued our Pac-Man escapades until I could level up with ease, feeling like a true gamer. It wasn’t just the games that captivated me; I was also smitten with Max. One afternoon, while getting ready for another outing, Max told my aunt that I had declared my love for him. An overwhelming wave of humiliation washed over me, and I could feel my cheeks burning bright as I nearly shouted, “No, I didn’t! I don’t even like you!” Max’s face flushed, and he turned to stare out the window. I felt crushed, like I had shattered our friendship.
After that incident, both Pac-Man and Max were out of reach. We exchanged awkward pleasantries whenever necessary, but neither of us had the courage to address what had transpired. As my time in Baton Rouge dwindled, we began to reconnect, sitting side by side once more as we watched Pac-Man triumph over the ghosts. I knew I would soon leave Louisiana, the sweltering heat, and Max behind, but I took solace in the fact that Pac-Man would always be there waiting for me.
This article was originally published on May 27, 2015.
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Summary:
In the summer of 1984, the introduction to Pac-Man and a budding friendship with Max transformed a young girl’s life in Baton Rouge. Their adventures oscillated between gaming and outdoor explorations, revealing a carefree lifestyle that captivated her. Amidst the laughter and awkwardness of first crushes, the enduring memory of Pac-Man and the lessons of that summer would remain.
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