Enough with the constant rush.
Enough with the never-ending laundry piles.
Enough with fundraisers that seem to multiply like rabbits.
Enough with drivers who can’t figure out turn lanes.
Enough with digital invites that require constant reminders.
Enough with emails asking, “Did you get the invite?”
Enough with juggling 11 tabs on my browser (not at a bar).
Enough with the judgment.
Enough with judging the judges.
Enough with exorbitant shipping fees.
Enough with the overuse of cowbell in songs.
Enough already!
I’m feeling cranky. Everything around me screams urgency! There’s no time to breathe. Even on a sunny Sunday morning, as I relax on my porch with a new book, there’s this nagging sensation that I should be somewhere else, doing something. The weight of deadlines, tasks, and responsibilities is always looming. It feels like I’m being scrutinized for either my failures or for daring to take a break. But who’s judging me, really?
The truth is, it’s often my own harsh inner critic. This relentless feeling of inadequacy and guilt when I pause is self-imposed, isn’t it? Enough is enough!
I could write a detailed piece exploring the societal factors that contribute to this mindset. I could analyze the pressures women face and how we often measure ourselves against unrealistic standards. I could dive into how this culture of comparison has created an environment where every woman feels evaluated by others. Yes, I could pen a series of thought-provoking tweets asserting that perfection—be it as a mother, partner, or individual—doesn’t exist. Despite the plethora of articles encouraging women to let go of the need to do it all, the elusive goal of perfection still seems tantalizingly close, if only the kids would hurry into the car or I wouldn’t forget the laundry detergent again. If only, if only, if only.
Enough!
Just this past weekend, my children and I walked home from a neighborhood Easter celebration. As I reminded them to make way for the younger kids and to take it easy on the piñata, I felt overwhelmed. My children were older than most there, and I wasn’t chasing them around with a camera or fussing over chocolate stains. I was thrilled about this milestone in our journey, but I also realized that I’m now the “Mom of Big Kids,” the one under the scrutinizing gaze of younger parents. I felt the weight of judgment as I watched my kids enjoy the bouncy house while I stared into space.
But what I wanted to shout to those new moms is that I’m just as invested in my kids’ well-being. I worry about their safety and happiness. Was that glance of disapproval from them perhaps a hint of envy? Or maybe it was just me projecting my insecurities. Perhaps they were lost in their thoughts, wondering why their little one is having a meltdown or how to escape before a mess happens. Our fleeting looks at each other shouldn’t equal immediate judgment, and it bothers me that my first thought is often negative.
Enough!
As we made our way home, my youngest lagged behind, as usual. My impatience flared as I turned to see him dragging his feet. I was about to urge him to hurry when he smiled and proudly held up a tiny leaf with a rollie pollie resting on it. “I have to keep him safe,” my son explained, “He’s so small that I might lose him.”
In that moment, I was reminded of something essential: life isn’t just a series of moments leading to the next. Each moment is valuable and shouldn’t feel like a performance for an audience.
Enough with feeling like I’m not enough. Sometimes, the most vital part of any day is slowing down enough to appreciate the little things—because those can be surprisingly difficult to find again.
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In conclusion, it’s time to embrace our journeys without the weight of constant comparison or judgment. Let’s focus on what truly matters: those little moments that make it all worthwhile.
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