Dear Emma,
One day, when you’re older, you might stumble upon this list online—perhaps while searching for me or yourself. I could have tucked it away in a dusty corner of my closet alongside your brother’s toddler teeth and that shard of glass we pulled from your other brother’s leg, but let’s be honest: it would probably get lost.
I might not be the typical mom who meticulously keeps baby books and writes down every milestone. I hope that when you read this, if you ever do, you embrace it rather than think, “OMG, Mom is so embarrassing!” Please, no posting half-naked selfies online. Trust me on this—just don’t.
What I Want You to Know:
Be a lady when it counts, but know that some moments call for a little rebellion. If you’re going to let loose, make it memorable! Once you’ve calmed down, fix your hair, reapply that lipstick, and carry on like the strong woman you are.
You are stunning—always remember that. While it’s important to make the most of your looks, remember that your character and words will define you. Invest just enough time in your appearance to boost your confidence, and spend the rest of your time becoming a person others want to be around.
Authenticity is key. I want you to feel completely free to be yourself, always. That version of you is amazing—don’t hide her!
Beware of women who may try to undermine you. Choose friends who uplift and understand you. Surround yourself with those who make you laugh until you cry and who will be there with you during sad times. If you have friends like that, the negativity from others will sting less.
People will criticize, and while it might hurt now, one day you’ll stop caring. Until then, know that it’s okay to feel the pain.
You don’t owe anyone anything. If someone crosses a boundary, stand up for yourself and don’t just accept it.
Expect to be underestimated. Focus on the joy of surprising others with your intelligence rather than seeking attention for being pretty. Anyone can be attractive, but no one can be YOU.
Your father and brothers will likely make dating quite a challenge for you. I apologize in advance, but any boy who wins their approval will surely deserve your love and time.
If you fancy a boy, go ahead and date him, but remember: marriage doesn’t have to be the next step, even if he suggests it.
You come from a lineage of strong women. I expect you to honor that heritage by staying true to yourself regardless of life’s challenges. When in doubt, refer back to being genuine.
Please hold off on becoming sexually active until you’re truly ready for the responsibilities that come with it. And don’t have children until you’re with the right partner. For goodness’ sake, prioritize your education until you’re employable. Yes, I made that bold for a reason—take it seriously.
Even if you struggle, try something. Eventually, you’ll discover what you love and what you excel at.
If you’re unhappy with your circumstances, do something about it!
Lastly, please, get a professional bra fitting. You’ll be amazed at the difference the right undergarments can make.
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Summary:
In this heartfelt letter, I share essential life lessons with my daughter Emma, emphasizing the importance of authenticity, resilience, and self-worth. I encourage her to navigate friendships wisely, embrace her individuality, and be cautious in relationships, all while celebrating her beauty and strength. I also touch on the significance of education and self-care, offering resources for home insemination and pregnancy.
Keyphrase: Lessons for My Daughter
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