Often, while reading, I find certain passages resonate deeply with me, leaving me pondering their significance. Recently, I revisited Story of a Soul, the spiritual memoir of St. Thérèse of Lisieux, and a specific paragraph finally clicked for me.
To set the scene: In 1897, young Thérèse, weakened by tuberculosis, was confined to a wheelchair in her convent garden. Tasked by her Prioress to document her childhood memories, she struggled to write. She reflects on the distractions around her:
“As I pick up my pen, a Sister strolls by with a pitchfork, engaging me in light conversation about hay, ducks, and the doctor’s visits. Another hay worker tosses flowers into my lap, perhaps thinking they would inspire poetic thoughts. Yet, I would rather see those flowers dancing in the field than clutter my writing space. I find it hard to write even ten lines without interruption. But for the sake of God and my Sisters—who are so kind to me—I make sure to seem content, even if I’m not truly so. For instance, a hay worker just left, saying compassionately, ‘Poor Sister, it must tire you to write all day.’ I responded, ‘Don’t fret, I may look busy, but I’m hardly writing at all.’ ‘That’s fine!’ she replied, ‘I’m just glad we’re haying, as it gives you a bit of distraction.’ In truth, that distraction is so overwhelming that I can honestly say I’m writing practically nothing.”
Thérèse beautifully illustrates the value of embracing gifts in the spirit they were offered, rather than getting caught up in the gifts themselves. She craved solitude to write, not idle chatter or a bouquet; yet she made an effort to appear joyful while accepting these interruptions.
This reminds me of a time my partner surprised me with a large gardenia plant, knowing how much I adore them. My initial response? A weak “Thanks, it’s so…big.” Inside, I was flooded with self-doubt—where would I place it? Could I possibly care for it without killing it, as I had done with past plants? The thoughtful gesture instead triggered worries about my capabilities, leaving me unable to respond with the excitement such a lovely gift deserved. I now think of that gardenia every time I see one, reflecting on the importance of not just appearing happy, but genuinely finding joy in the moment.
“Respond to the spirit of a gift” is a principle I often remind myself of, even when it seems so obvious.
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In conclusion, the act of graciously receiving gifts can illuminate our personal challenges. Instead of allowing self-doubt to overshadow thoughtful gestures, we should embrace the intent behind the gift, fostering genuine happiness.
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