In my quest to create The Ultimate Guide for Modern Women (Workman, new edition 2015), I gathered insights from countless women reflecting on their post-college lives. They shared the lessons they wish they’d learned earlier to make navigating their 20s and 30s less challenging. Here’s one memorable takeaway.
About Clara Bennett
Name: Clara Bennett
Age: 24
Profession: User Experience Designer
What do you wish you had known sooner?
I wish I had realized that not every situation requires a reaction. Just because you love someone doesn’t mean you’re both ready for that love, and learning to embrace solitude without self-doubt is crucial.
Throughout your journey, you’ll encounter many remarkable individuals, but you’ll also meet those who don’t contribute positively to your life. Remember, it’s okay to distance yourself from the latter group, even though it might take courage.
On the brighter side, there are those special people who will accept you wholeheartedly, through both your highs and lows. If you haven’t discovered them yet, don’t lose hope—they are out there waiting for you. In the meantime, hold your ground, and for goodness’ sake, stop saying sorry so much.
As Helen Thompson so aptly put it, “You’re not going to end up alone and without a job.”
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Summary
In your 20s, it’s essential to learn that not every situation requires a reaction, and loving someone doesn’t necessarily mean you’re both prepared for that love. Embracing solitude and avoiding toxic relationships are important. Remember, the right people will accept you as you are, so don’t apologize unnecessarily and stay true to yourself.
Keyphrase: wisdom for your 20s
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