Recently, I shared a selfie on my blog’s Facebook page as I prepared to take my kids to the pool. The caption? “Off to the pool! Fingers crossed this Dad Bod trend is still in style because I’m going shirtless.” If you haven’t heard of the “Dad Bod” phenomenon, it all started when a Clemson University student named Mackenzie Pearson wrote a piece titled “Why Girls Love the Dad Bod.” She argued that many women find a physique that strikes a balance between a little extra around the waist and occasional gym visits far more appealing than those with rock-hard abs. This idea quickly gained traction, making it seem like men could finally relax about their fitness routines while leaving women to ponder the absence of a “Mom Bod” equivalent.
Not long after posting my selfie, a follower commented, “I wish Mom Bod was a thing.” Ironically, I was parked at Target, with our three kids ready to hit the pool while my wife, Sarah, was inside hunting for a new swimsuit since her old one no longer fit as well as it had before. We had a bit of a debate before we left the house— I insisted she looked stunning in her suit, while she lamented how motherhood had altered her body.
Sarah finally emerged from the store with two swimsuits instead of one, unable to pick just one as time was running out. “You’ll look amazing in both,” I assured her.
When she came out of the changing room in a sleek black one-piece, her hair neatly braided and our toddler, Lily, in her arms, she looked magnificent. She was the mother of my children, the woman I had committed to for a decade, and the partner who had supported me through thick and thin. But as she walked over, I could sense her uncertainty about her appearance.
“You look stunning,” I said, but she gave me a half-hearted smile that made me wonder if she truly believed my words or if she was just feeling insecure.
That was when I decided to take off my shirt for the first time in years at a pool. While my confidence was partly fueled by the Dad Bod trend, it was mostly due to my recent weight loss of 25 pounds. According to the BMI charts, I still had about 10 pounds to lose, but I felt liberated enough to swim without a shirt.
However, after an hour of splashing around, Sarah snapped a picture of me playing with Lily. Upon seeing it, I thought I looked overweight and promptly deleted it. “Why did you delete that?” Sarah asked. “I just looked fat,” I replied.
“You looked sexy,” she countered, and we found ourselves in a role reversal—she was boosting my confidence just as I had tried to do for her moments earlier.
But what exactly is a Dad Bod? It’s a concept created by media trends and shaped by social perceptions. The irony is that neither of us fully embraces each other’s compliments; we both wrestle with our insecurities about our appearances. The media defines attractiveness in narrow terms, which shifts with time, but regardless of the trend—be it Dad Bod or Mom Bod—neither of us ever feels like we measure up.
Yet, here’s the truth: I find my wife utterly amazing in countless ways. Her dedication to our family, her strength as a full-time mom, and her commitment to her education are what truly take my breath away. If there were a way to illustrate her love and sacrifices for our family, she’d grace the cover of every magazine.
A flat stomach and perfect curves might impress on paper, but it’s the complete package that makes my wife the incredible partner she is. After a decade of marriage, my affection for her goes far beyond physical appearance; it’s anchored in her unwavering commitment to our family and her relentless drive to excel.
As we left the pool, I embraced Sarah by the van and said, “You were the most beautiful woman at the pool today.” “Only to you,” she replied, and I smiled back, knowing that was the best compliment I could give her.
In conclusion, the Mom Bod is not just a body—it’s a representation of love, commitment, and the incredible journey of motherhood. For more insights about home insemination and family planning, check out our articles on home insemination kits and fertility journeys, and don’t forget to explore this excellent resource for pregnancy and home insemination.
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