In my many hours spent chatting with fellow stay-at-home parents (SAHPs) at the park, I’ve realized that our struggles are often quite similar. To help keep our homes harmonious, here’s a list of questions that partners should steer clear of. Remember, a happy SAHP contributes to a happy family!
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“Wow, it’s a bit messy in here.”
Really? I’ve tidied up the living room multiple times already. Those toys have been shuffled around more than once. I invested part of my precious nap time just to straighten things up! Instead, why not grab a cleaning spray and tackle a spot while engaging with the kids? I’ll be taking a moment to breathe in peace, thank you. -
“What did you do all day?”
If another SAHP asks, I might joke, “Nothing.” But when you ask this, it feels like you think I’m just lounging around. How do I explain the endless rounds of pretend play involving trains and princesses? It’s amusing how the kids seem glued to their screens only when you’re around, right? -
“You seem to be raising your voice a lot.”
Oh, really? Try herding energetic toddlers while repeating “Let’s put on your shoes” over and over. When you add in wardrobe changes for accidents, it’s enough to test anyone’s patience. After a full day of this, you might find your tone rising, too! -
“I need some time to unwind after work.”
That’s great, but on your way home, could you not stop for a coffee or a drink and take a moment for yourself? Until the kids are tucked in for the night, it’s a bit chaotic around here. -
“You didn’t pick up the __________?”
(You can fill in the blank: snacks, cleaning supplies, etc.) Really? You mean the items you could have easily grabbed while out and about? Please don’t ask what I did all day when I wasn’t able to run errands with the kids in tow. -
“You should take a break. Get a babysitter.”
Of course, I’d love a break! But when the clock strikes 6:15 and you call to say you’ll be late, it’s not about needing a sitter; it’s about planning your time better to keep the peace. -
“When was your last shower?”
Seriously, let’s skip that question, okay? -
“Just make it a game.”
If only toddler tantrums could be solved with a playful twist! The reality is that some days, I wish I could just bribe them to tidy up instead of turning everything into a game. -
“Do you think you might need a haircut?”
Funny how personal grooming takes a backseat when you’re busy. Why don’t you schedule it for me, including a babysitter?
Feel free to add your own thoughts on what SAHPs need to maintain their happiness. I need to run—my little one just discovered a book of matches!
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Summary:
Navigating the world of stay-at-home parenting comes with its own set of challenges. To foster better communication and support, there are certain questions and comments that should be avoided. Partners can contribute to a harmonious home life by being mindful of the day-to-day realities faced by SAHPs.
Keyphrase: stay-at-home parent communication
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