As I’ve been answering countless questions about the book writing journey lately, I thought it would be beneficial to share the insights I’ve gained along the way. While I don’t profess to be an expert on every aspect of publishing—especially when it comes to finding an agent (mine approached me)—I’ve certainly gathered a wealth of knowledge about the overall process in recent years.
Releasing a book is strikingly similar to bringing a child into the world: it’s a blend of pain, joy, and utter chaos. The moment you hold your finished book is exhilarating, making all the hard work feel worthwhile. However, the journey to that moment can be anything but simple, and anyone who tells you differently is not being truthful.
Here’s what I wish I had known before diving in…
Crafting Your Book Proposal
If you’re working on fiction, be prepared to have a completed manuscript ready to attract an agent or secure a book deal. That means you’re looking at writing an entire book before you even think about selling it—definitely not ideal! On the other hand, for non-fiction, you can often get by with just a proposal, particularly if you have a blog that showcases your writing style.
If you’re like me and haven’t penned an outline since your school days, the idea of a proposal can be intimidating, but it’s a straightforward process. Here are some essential components to include:
- A clear description of your book and your motivation for writing it.
- A brief introduction about yourself—essentially your resume.
- Identification of your target audience: use tools like Google and Facebook Analytics to understand who your readers are.
- Your online presence: list your blog, social media accounts, and any platforms where you engage with readers.
- Previous media exposure: mention any press coverage or accolades your writing has received.
- A detailed chapter outline—this will save you time later.
- Sample content: write at least 4-5 chapters that reflect your final vision.
- Visual elements: as a graphic designer, I made my proposal visually appealing, but even simple images can help it stand out.
- Hyperlinks to your online content for easy access.
- Finally, have a few trusted friends review your proposal to catch any typos or errors.
Navigating the Publishing Landscape
My books, “Confessions of a Modern Parent” and “Motherhood Unplugged,” were published by the Gallery imprint of Simon & Schuster. After I completed my proposal for “Confessions,” my agent pitched it to several publishers, and Simon & Schuster made an offer. While a bidding war would have been exciting, one solid offer is often all you need.
Many wonder if having an agent is essential, and the answer is undoubtedly yes. Unless you’re self-publishing, having someone knowledgeable in your corner is invaluable. The 15% commission they take is well worth the expertise they bring.
Self-publishing is a growing trend, especially for bloggers with established audiences. While you miss out on the backing of a traditional publisher and don’t receive an advance, you keep all profits from your book. Both traditional and self-published books can succeed or fail. Here are a few lessons I learned from working with a major publishing house:
- Building rapport with your editor is crucial. They will guide you through the editing process and become your main contact during production.
- Your publisher expects you to promote your book actively. They’ll help, but it’s your audience that drives sales. Despite having over 240,000 Twitter followers when my first book launched, actual sales didn’t reflect those numbers, which can be frustrating.
- Stay authentic. Publishers want to sell books, and while their marketing ideas might be well-intentioned, sometimes you have to prioritize your vision over their suggestions.
- Ultimately, no one will care about your book as much as you do. Whether it’s your editor, publisher, or friends, you must become your own biggest advocate.
The Writing Process
Writing a book is a vastly different experience than blogging. Many aspects of blogging—like instant feedback, comments, and creative freedom—don’t translate to book writing. Describing the challenge of writing a book is an understatement. Here are some tips:
- Capture inspiration as it strikes. There were days I struggled to write, only to find myself producing multiple chapters in one sitting. Seize those moments, even if it means sacrificing sleep.
- If you’re stuck, seek inspiration elsewhere. Browse parenting books or magazines to spark new ideas or identify gaps in the market.
- Review your blog for content that can be expanded into book material. Readers won’t pay for a book they can access for free, so build off what they already love.
- Always back up your work. I’ve learned this the hard way too many times, losing valuable chapters that never felt as good when rewritten.
Marketing and Promoting Your Book
If you go the traditional publishing route, you’ll likely collaborate with their marketing team. However, if you self-publish, the responsibility will fall entirely on you. Even with a publisher’s support, you’ll want to take charge of your marketing strategy. Here are some ideas:
- Create pre-order incentives. For example, I offered signed bookplates for pre-orders, which were simple to produce and effective.
- Provide free samples. Making the first couple of chapters available for free can entice potential readers to purchase the full book.
- Distribute copies to fellow bloggers without expecting reviews. If they enjoy it, they’ll likely share it with others, creating organic buzz.
- Participate in radio interviews. They’re easy to do and can yield significant promotional benefits.
- Leverage your existing community. Involve your blog readers, friends, and coworkers in your excitement—they can be your best allies.
- Host a launch party, whether intimate or grand, to celebrate your achievement and generate excitement.
- Be cautious with promotion. There’s a fine line between promoting and annoying your audience, so be mindful of how often you reach out for support.
Television Appearances
I was fortunate to gain experience through local TV spots before moving to national platforms during my book tour. Here are some tips I picked up along the way:
- Dress appropriately. This isn’t a grocery store run—your appearance will be scrutinized by a wide audience.
- Choose comfort. Wear something flattering that allows you to focus on the interview, not your outfit.
- Practice how you’ll sit during the interview; what looks good standing might not translate well when seated.
- Opt for heels, as you’ll be sitting, and they can enhance your appearance.
- Accept professional hair and makeup services if offered; it’s usually better than what you can do yourself.
- Maintain eye contact with the interviewer instead of the camera.
- Avoid fidgeting; it can distract viewers.
- Stick to your core message, and make sure to mention your book and blog often.
- Sit up straight; good posture is essential on camera.
- Remember to smile! It may feel silly, but it’s better than appearing bored or aloof.
In-Person Events
While book tours are becoming less common unless you’re a well-known celebrity, I initially believed they were effective for promoting my work. However, my publisher’s insights proved true over time.
In conclusion, writing a book is an arduous yet rewarding journey, filled with lessons learned at every turn. Whether you’re navigating the publishing world, crafting your proposal, or promoting your work, remember to stay true to yourself and be your own advocate.
Summary
The journey of writing a book is akin to parenting: challenging but ultimately rewarding. Key steps include crafting a thorough book proposal, understanding the publishing landscape, and effectively marketing your work. Remember, no one will care about your book as much as you do—be your own biggest supporter.
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