“Wow! She is SO adorable!”
Without needing to look up from the cereal box, I instantly recognize the voice. It’s directed at my middle daughter, whom I can only assume is the center of attention.
“Where does that strawberry hair come from? And those big brown eyes…” The woman’s voice drifts off as she gazes, seemingly entranced by my daughter’s captivating looks.
“Actually, red hair is a recessive trait, so both my husband and I must have it in our genetics,” I reply, trying to remain polite despite having this exact exchange just ten minutes prior in another aisle. It’s a routine I’ll likely repeat at least once more before I finish my grocery shopping. Glancing over at my other two daughters with their caramel locks and lighter eyes—who both closely resemble my husband and me—I can’t help but notice how my middle child appears like a cherubic dream come to life.
The compliments began the moment she was born, with nurses fawning over her, and they have continued non-stop.
Everywhere we venture, it’s the same.
- She’s just… I’ve never encountered a baby so perfect!
- She could grace the cover of a magazine!
- She’s definitely the cutest of your kids—and she knows it!
I adore all of my daughters equally, yet it’s undeniable that my middle one seems to attract attention effortlessly. All three of my girls have the same teachers, but it’s clear that my middle child enjoys certain privileges her sisters don’t. People often form assumptions about her character based solely on her cuteness. “What a sweet little angel, and so clever!” they’ll exclaim while she’s busy picking her nose during church.
She often lands speaking roles in plays, engages in more conversations, and at blogging events, she’s frequently approached by PR representatives for photos.
This experience is new to me—having a child whose beauty captivates others. As comedian Amy Poehler would say, my strength lies in my personality. When I was single, I would linger near the restroom while friends snagged free drinks, only to emerge as the designated conversationalist to gracefully usher an unsuspecting gentleman away.
Being slightly below average in looks wasn’t all doom and gloom. It pushed me to hone my personality, sparing my parents from the anxiety of teenage pregnancy announcements, and likely saving me a fortune on pageant outfits over the years. But let’s be real—life tends to be simpler for those deemed attractive. Whether it’s dating, making friends, or landing jobs, all appear to come easier. A 2013 Business Insider study found that attractive applicants were 24% more likely to receive callbacks for job interviews compared to their less appealing counterparts.
However, my daughter’s beauty comes with its own challenges. I’ve had people jokingly offer to buy her (though on a particularly tough day, I might consider it), request to photograph her (um, absolutely not), and I’ve even caught individuals discreetly recording her (let’s just say, they’re now resting peacefully in shallow graves).
Now, I find myself questioning my role as a parent in this scenario. While I appreciate the compliments, I certainly don’t want her to develop an inflated ego—or worse, for my other daughters to feel insecure about their own appearances.
Should I downplay her beauty?
- “Wow, she’s adorable!”
- “Meh, I’ve seen better.”
Or perhaps I should amplify the appeal of my other daughters? Displaying them like prized show dogs?
- “Look at the shiny coat on this one!”
For now, I suppose I’ll just keep smiling, thanking those who compliment her, and explaining the basics of genetics to total strangers. One day, though, I’m definitely teaching them how to use teamwork to score free drinks.
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In summary, navigating the complexities of raising a child who stands out can be both rewarding and challenging. Balancing compliments with humility and ensuring all children feel valued is crucial.
Keyphrase: Raising a Beautiful Child Among Siblings
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