As I lie awake tonight, a nagging sense of unease keeps me from resting. I replay the events of my day in my mind—names, faces, and moments—until I land on one of my children nestled under their covers upstairs. Yes, that’s it. She’s the reason for my restless night.
I reminisce about the challenging moments we shared, the sharp words exchanged, and I find myself praying—not only for her but also for me. Just the night before, I found myself mulling over the escalating costs of college tuition, which kept me up an extra hour. A couple of nights prior, I struggled through a tension headache, my mind racing with an endless to-do list. And the week before that, the flu wreaked havoc, leaving my second grader feverish and wheezing, forcing me to keep vigilant through the night.
Next to my bed is a notepad that always bears witness to my worries—a reminder, a prayer, or something I need to tackle. This morning, it simply read, “Call the dentist. Tell Andy to stop snacking on chips.”
Every stage of motherhood presents its own unique challenges, yet the core feelings remain unchanged. The worries, the self-doubt, the nagging thoughts of “What am I doing wrong?” are constants. The weight of responsibility for these little lives is both immense and exhausting.
We pour our energy into our families. We love fiercely, yet we glance ahead at our endless lists of chores—grocery shopping, cleaning, meal prep, and the festive hustle of the holiday season. The fatigue is palpable. It’s not just the kind that a cozy day in bed can remedy. It’s a profound weariness, bone-deep and relentless.
Can you relate? The noise of daily life, the mountain of laundry, and the unyielding demands can be overwhelming. Some days, it feels like we need permission to set aside our worries, our fears, and our doubts—to step back, unplug, say no, and carve out time for ourselves.
Well, here it is. You have my permission to pause. To be still. To reflect. To simply exist. We can strive for a picture-perfect holiday season, or we can embrace the idea that perfection is overrated.
As we gear up for gatherings, cooking, and quality time with family and friends, let’s remember to include ourselves on that list of priorities. We are adept at giving; we hand over the last cookie, offer our hoodies when our kids feel cold, and prioritize their needs above our own.
This week, take a moment to unwind. Swap out your worries for peace and allow yourself to rest. Remind yourself that you are doing a fantastic job as a mom.
Happy Thanksgiving!
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In summary, let’s embrace the chaos and remember to take care of ourselves while navigating the beautiful, challenging journey of motherhood.
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