Let’s be honest, it’s time to spill the beans. I have a confession that I’ve kept hidden from most of my friends, and certainly from those judgmental folks online. I’m absolutely infatuated with The Bachelor. Not specifically with the latest bachelor, Jake, but rather with the entire spectacle. I eagerly anticipate every episode, and I can hardly contain my excitement for the upcoming season premiere this Monday.
A close friend introduced me to this delightful chaos a few seasons back, and I can’t even recall how I spent my Mondays before joining the ranks of “Bachelor Nation.” The thought of those mundane evenings sends shivers down my spine—I can’t imagine life without my Bachelor fix.
Once upon a time, I was a critic of the show, but oh, how the tables have turned! I never want to go back to a Monday without The Bachelor (unless it’s a break between seasons, which leaves me stuck watching reruns of reality shows that don’t quite hit the mark). Many of my fellow mom friends have either succumbed to the show’s charm or have been fans at one point, and here’s why they keep tuning in week after week.
1. The Bachelor Offers Safe Drama
I’ve never been one to thrive on drama; it usually just adds stress to my life, and I prefer to avoid overthinking sticky emotions. As a stay-at-home mom, the real-life drama I face is limited to toddler tantrums and the occasional disagreement with my partner over how to load the dishwasher. I relish this chance to watch the emotional rollercoaster that is The Bachelor from the comfort of my couch, clad in my favorite sweats and sipping on a glass of wine. It’s my weekly escape into adult drama while I cheer from the sidelines.
2. The Bachelor is Low-Stakes Betting
Watching the initial episodes of The Bachelor feels like assembling a fantasy football team. I find myself analyzing which contestants could make it far, who might be a little too eccentric, and who will likely head home first due to their emotional meltdowns. The beauty of it? There’s no financial risk involved! These women willingly signed up for this experience, and I’m simply cheering them on. Plus, they often gain plenty of Instagram followers and even embark on blogging careers afterward—everyone loves a good blog!
3. The Bachelor has a Dramatic Conclusion
There’s something thrilling about the “chopping-block” style of eliminations each week. Watching women leave the show heartbroken is both cringeworthy and fascinating—it’s like witnessing a real-life drama unfold. It’s exciting to guess who might be the next to leave the show, and while it may seem harsh, let’s not forget that these contestants chose to be part of this journey.
4. The Bachelor Fosters Community
Moms thrive on connection, which is evident in the millions of Facebook groups dedicated to parenting. This sense of community extends to Bachelor Nation as well. I have a small group of friends—including my own mom—who keep up with the show together. We share our predictions and reactions, bonding over the emotional ups and downs that unfold each episode. It’s a great way to connect with loved ones over shared experiences.
5. The Bachelor Leaves Us Grateful
After each episode, I’m often left feeling completely drained (unless it’s a particularly dull episode). Despite this, I find myself feeling overwhelmingly grateful. Grateful for my marriage, for the mundane moments of everyday life, and for not having to endure the exhausting process of dating on national television. I appreciate my comfy clothes and the fact that my husband loves me just the way I am—no need for ball gowns or high heels!
So, there you have it! If you haven’t given The Bachelor a try, you might be missing out on a delightful guilty pleasure. It may not win any awards for quality television, but it’s undeniably entertaining. Pour yourself a glass of wine and get ready to place your bets because Jake is on a quest for true love, and who knows where that will lead!
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