Perception vs. Reality: You’re Doing Better Than You Think

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As a parent, I often find myself being overly critical, feeling like I’m failing when, in truth, I’m a pretty great mom. My children experience more love and support than many kids out there. Yet, I still catch myself feeling like the worst parent imaginable—whether I lose my cool, whip up a less-than-stellar meal, or just can’t muster the energy to play yet another round of Candy Land.

To provide a dose of reality, I want to debunk some common parenting myths and present some eye-opening truths about what it means to be a kid in today’s world.

Common Parenting Myths vs. Reality

Perception: I yelled at my kids during a frustrating moment. I must be a terrible parent.
Reality: Each year, over 6 million children suffer from abuse.

Perception: I gave my kids unhealthy snacks because I was too exhausted to cook a proper meal. I must be a terrible parent.
Reality: A staggering 16.7 million children face hunger every day.

Perception: Our yard is too small, and we lack a designated playroom. I must be a terrible parent.
Reality: One in three children in our society experiences homelessness.

Perception: I sent my child to daycare while they were feeling under the weather. I must be a terrible parent.
Reality: One-third of children lack health insurance and access to necessary healthcare.

Perception: I don’t spend enough quality time with my children. I must be a terrible parent.
Reality: Nearly 1 million parents have been deployed overseas since 2001, sacrificing their time with family for our country.

And here we are, consumed with guilt about the number of books we’ve read or the simple fact that our kids had Goldfish crackers for dinner. Parenting in the age of Pinterest can really mess with our minds.

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Summary

Parenting is often filled with self-doubt, but when we compare our struggles to the harsh realities faced by many children today, it’s clear that we are doing better than we think. Remember, the small things don’t define your abilities as a parent.

Keyphrase: Parenting Reality Check
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