A few years back, I went through a phase where I fancied skirts and dresses. Growing up, I was a total tomboy, preferring the comfort of t-shirts and jeans. But in my late twenties, I thought, perhaps influenced by social media, that I should lean into my femininity. I felt the pressure to wear skirts, pretty tops, and heels, as if that was the definition of being a “woman.”
At first, I enjoyed the transformation. I liked the compliments about my outfits and how my husband appreciated my longer hair. Yet, deep down, I felt like a fraud. The praise didn’t change the fact that I was hiding my true self.
Since becoming a mom, I’ve uncovered who I really am. My authentic self rocks a fierce, short hairstyle dyed a vibrant red. In the summer, I sport a faux hawk that makes me feel alive. I gravitate toward blue jeans and black tank tops, embracing my pale complexion rather than shying away from it. Dark eye makeup is my preference, even if everyone else seems to be into the “no-makeup” look. And when it comes to footwear, knee-high black boots win every time over heels.
I proudly declare that I won’t conform to anyone else’s expectations on how I should look or behave simply because I happen to be a woman. My goal is to feel empowered and badass, and the way I style my hair, choose my clothes, and apply my makeup plays a significant role in that feeling. When I see a reflection that makes me think, “You look amazing,” it boosts my mood. A happy me translates to a happier mom, partner, and friend.
I’m not suggesting you abandon your dresses and heels—what I’m advocating is this: do whatever makes you feel authentically you. This may sound a bit convoluted, so let me clarify—embrace what empowers you to feel like a warrior capable of tackling life’s challenges, from cleaning the house to kicking butt in your career. For me, that’s my red faux hawk, but for you, it could be something entirely different. Whatever it is, pursue it without shame or fear of societal judgment. Life is too short to waste on fitting into someone else’s mold.
Be bold. Be badass.
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In summary, motherhood can lead to self-discovery, helping you embrace your unique identity. Find what empowers you, express your true self, and don’t be afraid to be a badass.
Keyphrase: Embracing Badass Motherhood
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