Updated: Aug. 2, 2016
Originally Published: Sep. 21, 2012
From the moment they enter the world, our little ones rely on us for everything—even helping them burp! As parents, one of our main goals is to guide them toward independence, even if it means they won’t need us as much in the future. A while back, I penned a piece that discussed the bittersweet process of letting go as kids mature. It’s often surprising how they signal their readiness for the next steps before we even realize it. It comes down to them saying, “Hey Mom or Dad, I can handle this,” and us finding the strength to trust them and let go.
Moments of Independence
Consider these moments: at first, you might be reluctant to offer your child finger foods, but one day she munches on a Cheerio, glances at you, and with a sparkle in her eye, she declares, “No worries. I can handle this, Mom.”
Your toddler bravely releases your hand to take those first wobbly steps, looking back at you with a cheeky grin, “I’ve got this, Mom,” just before he tumbles down, only to get back up and try again.
When it’s time for preschool, your little one hesitates but then steps forward, glancing back at you with a hint of “I can do this, Mom,” even as tears brim in both your eyes.
Letting go of your child’s bike for her first solo ride, she exclaims, “I can do this, Mom!” as she pedals away with confidence.
At the edge of the diving board, your child takes a deep breath and leaps, surfacing with a triumphant shout, “I can handle this, Mom!”
As he boards the school bus for Kindergarten, he turns to you for one last look, flashing a smile and a thumbs-up that says, “I’m ready, Mom.”
When joining a new sports team, your child beams after a practice, saying, “I totally rocked it, Mom!”
Even during tough moments, like when he breaks a bone, he reassures you through his tears, “I know, Mom. I can manage this.”
At her first sleepover, your daughter hugs you goodbye, exclaiming, “I got this, Mom!”
As you drop your son off at hockey practice—where parents are no longer allowed—he confidently assures you, “No problem, Mom.”
Visiting him at sleepaway camp, he wipes his eyes and says, “I’m fine, I’ve got this, Mom.”
When your child graduates elementary school, she beams from the stage, looking back at you with pride, “I can handle this, Mom!”
Waiting for the middle school bus, you’re filled with nerves, but he looks determined and says, “I’ve got this, Mom.”
After discussing responsible cell phone usage, he excitedly says, “I can manage this, Mom,” even knowing there will be bumps along the way.
Finally, dropping your daughter and her friends off at the mall for the first time, she rolls her eyes and confidently says, “I’ll be fine, Mom. I’ve got this.”
Embracing Change
These “I can handle this, Mom” moments are everywhere, and I can already see the next milestones ahead—dating, driving, college, and beyond. As kids seek more freedom and responsibility, we must learn to give them the space they need. While there may be setbacks—like needing to take back that phone—we often find that kids intuitively know when they are ready to tackle new challenges, and sometimes we catch on too.
Just last month, I took my eldest to her high school orientation. We shared a moment of realization, both taking a deep breath as we stared at the towering building before us. I gave her a kiss on the cheek and a reassuring pat, wishing her all the best. As she stepped out of the car, I smiled and said, “Hey, you’ve got this.”
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Conclusion
In summary, as our children venture into new experiences, their confidence shines through, reminding us to trust in their abilities. Each milestone they reach brings us closer to understanding that they truly are capable of handling what comes next.
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