Parenting is a sensory overload like no other. It all begins with excruciating pain and relentless exhaustion. Your taste buds are neglected as you desperately try to feed your little ones, resulting in cold, uninspiring meals consumed after the kids have finally settled down for the night. Your once tasteful living space transforms into a chaotic sea of toys, obliterating any semblance of aesthetic appeal. Your sense of smell sharpens, allowing you to identify various odors and their implications—like how quickly you need to pull over during a car ride. And let’s not even get started on the new tactile sensations; the first time my son had a bathroom mishap in the tub, I nervously asked my partner, “Was it at least one big piece?” to which he grimly replied, “Oh, it covered all the textures!”
However, the most challenging aspect for me has been the constant noise.
Take, for example, our local park’s circular sandbox, bordered by a low concrete wall. My toddler enjoys turning a pail upside down and scraping it along the wall, capturing approximately 29 grains of sand beneath the rim as he goes. The sound is a disturbing mix of dragging metal and dental equipment. Every scrape sends me to cover my ears, interrupting my attempts to hold a coherent conversation with other parents on the bench. Honestly, I would prefer the sound of a wood chipper over that incessant scraping!
When discussing parenting, people often focus on issues like inadequate family leave, sleepless nights, meal times, and discipline. Yes, these are significant challenges, but no one ever addresses the relentless noise—from the midnight cries of a newborn to the plastic “musical” toys that well-meaning relatives gift, producing the same torturous tune on repeat. (Seriously, how about gifting something quiet, like cash?)
Recently, I’ve been grappling with another noise dilemma: the kitchen chairs. My 2-year-old’s favorite pastime is to “make a train,” which involves pushing the chairs away from the table into a line. This creates an ear-piercing screech that’s akin to an off-key trumpet or a dental hygienist scraping plaque. I’ve tried using felt pads, but they don’t stick on our worn floor, meaning at least one chair leg always drags and screeches. More than once, I’ve dropped utensils mid-preparation because he startled me by pushing a chair across the floor. My instinct is to cover my ears and exclaim, “That is way too loud!”
I find myself repeating “that is too loud” dozens of times a day, and it’s disheartening. I have two young boys who need to run, shout, and enjoy themselves! Sometimes, they create raucous games, like pretending to be hyper squirrels or amusing each other at dinner by dragging forks through mashed potatoes, which inevitably leads to scraping plates.
I must admit, I have an acute sense of hearing. Some might say I have hyperacusis—an actual condition where some frequencies become unbearable. I carry earplugs with me, especially when using public transport or attending concerts.
What’s unfortunate is that I despise this aspect of myself. I wish my children wouldn’t push the limits of noise or find new ways to irritate me, like thumping grocery bags or tapping jelly jars with spoons. Ultimately, I wish I didn’t react so strongly to noise. I don’t want my kids to feel they have to tiptoe around me, as I did with my grandmother, who was similarly noise-sensitive. I want them to laugh and enjoy their time without my frequent reminders to tone it down.
Yet, this is the reality of our lives. We all have quirks to manage—like dealing with bath time accidents. Perhaps there’s a silver lining: my children might just become future librarians!
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Summary
Parenting is a sensory whirlwind, filled with challenges from noise to messes. The constant sound of children playing can be overwhelming, particularly for those with heightened sensitivity to noise. While it’s essential for kids to express themselves, parents often find themselves caught between wanting to enjoy their laughter and needing some quiet. Acknowledging these challenges and being aware of individual sensitivities can help create a more harmonious home environment.
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