Updated: Aug. 13, 2015
Originally Published: Aug. 12, 2011
When I was a new parent with just one child, I aimed for nothing less than perfection. I envisioned being the flawless mom to my perfect little girl, which led to constant disappointments. But raising three kids has transformed my perspective in ways I can’t fully express. It’s made me rise above trivial concerns like “Is my house spotless for visitors?” or “Are my children behaving perfectly?”
Now, my approach to parenting is as efficient as my diaper bag—no more unnecessary items, no more fretting over unattainable standards. Instead, I focus on the present moment, appreciating my children for who they are. Although the journey with three kids can be challenging, it also liberates me to relish their authenticity. Here are some of the reasons I cherish having three kids:
- It’s the maximum number of kids you can comfortably manage without needing to buy a minivan.
- “Leftovers” become a foreign concept in our house.
- The odds are good that one of them will take me in when I’m older.
- You really get your money’s worth from all that pricey baby gear you once thought was essential.
- Everyone understands when you’re running late to an event.
- You have the perfect lineup to form a family rock band.
- There’s always at least one kid ready to snuggle up.
- If you’re fortunate, you might catch the sound of three giggles at once.
- In photos, there’s always a little one to hide behind.
- Most days, at least one child stays off your naughty list.
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Summary
Embracing the chaos of raising three children can be liberating. Each child brings their own unique joys and challenges, allowing parents to focus less on perfection and more on the love and laughter that comes with family life.
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