Dear Little Ones,
As your parents, we often focus on teaching you essential safety rules, like looking both ways before crossing the street and avoiding hot surfaces or stray animals. However, there are other important lessons I seem to have missed along the way—lessons that may not seem urgent but are crucial for your happiness and well-being. Based on your reactions, it’s clear that a little guidance is in order. So, here are a few revelations that deserve your attention:
1. Naps Are Your Allies.
Contrary to your belief, naptime is not a battle to be waged. It’s a glorious opportunity! When someone suggests you snuggle into your comfy bed during the day, for goodness’ sake, take the chance! You’re resisting naptime as if you’re going to miss out on the best event of the year. Once you realize that indulging in guilt-free naps is a privilege and not a punishment, your reaction to “Let’s take a nap!” might just change from a dramatic meltdown to excited acceptance.
2. Personal Hygiene Is Important.
I know you often resist when I try to clip your nails or coax you into a nice bubbly bath. Believe me, it’s not just a chore; these are services that adults pay for. You have a personal stylist at your beck and call 24/7, ready to pamper you. So, why not sit back and enjoy the experience? You’re getting a free manicure and haircut—appreciate it!
3. Your Laundry is Pure Magic.
In your eyes, laundry might seem like a fairy tale. You toss your worn clothes into the hamper, and somehow they reappear clean and folded. It’s a miracle! Please realize how much work goes into that—sorting, washing, and folding are not exactly fun tasks. Plus, you have the luxury of someone choosing the perfect outfits for you each day. Embrace that convenience instead of complaining about it!
4. You Have a Personal Chef.
Think about it: you never have to rummage through the fridge for something to eat or worry about grocery shopping. Your only job is to show up at the table, where a (mostly) delicious meal awaits you. I even blow on your food to cool it down while sacrificing my own meal’s temperature! Next time you’re picking out “yucky pieces” from your meal, remember all the effort that goes into providing for you.
5. Transportation is Effortless.
When was the last time you navigated through heavy traffic or hunted for a parking spot? That’s right—you haven’t! You get to relax in the back seat while someone else handles the driving. Whether you’re engrossed in a book or taking a nap, you have it easy. When the event is over, you don’t even need to call for a ride home; it’s already waiting for you. You’re fortunate, so remember that!
I hope this letter helps you see the many luxuries you have at your fingertips. From a laundry service to a personal chef, you’re living a life of convenience that most people would envy. You even have someone around to cut up grapes so you won’t choke! Appreciate these perks while you still can—don’t wait until you’re grown and have to do it all yourself.
You’re welcome.
Love,
Mommy