Embarking on an adoption trip is an exhilarating yet nerve-wracking experience, especially when welcoming a new child into your family. Having traveled to China three times to adopt our children, I can tell you that packing for such a trip is a whole different ball game compared to your usual vacation. While a typical getaway might have you tossing in some clothes, comfy shoes, a light jacket, snacks, and perhaps a camera, preparing for adoption feels like you need to fit your entire household into your luggage! The struggle with the strict fifty-pound weight limit means you’ll likely end up prioritizing snacks over essentials.
During our last trip in March 2012, my husband and I traveled with our two older sons, who were six and seven years old at the time. We spent 17 days traversing four major cities in China.
Here’s a handy adoption trip equation to remember:
Seventeen days in a foreign land + a new child who likely doesn’t speak your language x potential initial dislike for you + the possibility of illness – comforts of home = PANIC!
To make this transition smoother for our family, we planned for every possible discomfort. Here’s a breakdown of what to include in your packing list:
- Snacks: While I love sampling local cuisine, there comes a time when all you crave are familiar snacks. After a couple of days of trying new foods, I found myself yearning for granola bars, fruit snacks, and cookies. Our picky eater often stuck to ramen noodles, so pack plenty of those too!
- Medications: You might think, “What if I get sick?” Let’s be real, the odds are you will get sick. Pack medications for every conceivable ailment—upset stomach, headaches, diarrhea, and even scabies. Trust me, you don’t want to navigate a Chinese pharmacy where the instructions are in Mandarin. Antibiotics are a must-have!
- Clothing: Bring enough outfits for five days, and don’t forget a swimsuit if the weather permits. Consider laundry detergent for quick washes in the bathroom sink. Also, avoid buying clothes for your new child until you arrive; sizes often differ from what you expect.
- Gifts: It’s customary to present gifts to various officials, nannies, and kids at the orphanage. Bring along bags and tissue paper for easy wrapping. Just remember, you won’t see the gifts being opened.
- Documentation: Your paperwork and passports are crucial. Forgetting these could derail your entire trip. A Chinese-English dictionary can be handy, even if just for the peace of mind it provides.
- Cash: Bring a hefty amount of cash—around $8000 if possible. You’ll feel safer knowing you have funds available, but it can be quite the burden to carry.
- Flight Necessities: Prepare for potentially grueling travel times (think 13 to 24+ hours). Bring snacks, entertainment devices, and a change of clothes just in case. Don’t forget lollipops for your child to help soothe them during the flight.
- Room Entertainment: You’ll spend ample time in your hotel room, so pack items that can keep both you and your child entertained. Bring chargers and adaptors for your devices, and consider downloading Skype for easy communication with family back home.
- Child Restraint: A stroller or baby carrier is essential for navigating airports and sightseeing. Ensure it can handle your child’s weight—there’s nothing worse than a malfunctioning carrier in the middle of Disneyland in Hong Kong!
- Open Heart: Above all, carry a heart full of love, patience, and compassion. This journey, while challenging, will bless you in ways you never imagined.
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In summary, preparing for an adoption trip requires thoughtful planning and a good sense of humor. By anticipating potential challenges and packing wisely, you can create a more comfortable experience for your family during this significant transition.
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