By: Jenna
Updated: Aug. 7, 2019
Originally Published: Oct. 28, 2010
At 47, I find myself grappling with an unexpected possibility: Could I be pregnant? As I ponder this, I can’t help but wonder if I’m on the brink of a new chapter or nearing the end of my childbearing years.
It all started when I realized I hadn’t had a period in three months. With life being as hectic as it is, I hadn’t even thought to take a test until I stumbled upon a promotion for a new brand of tampons. Suddenly, my mind began to calculate. Uh oh, time has flown by.
I spent the entire day contemplating the implications of this revelation. Am I about to welcome a new life into the world, or is this my cue to embrace menopause? Is my uterus entering a new phase or winding down?
The emotional rollercoaster was intense. My 5-year-old son and 6-year-old daughter were busy playing to a catchy Disney tune, and I felt a wave of nostalgia. “Look at them, my little angels. Could I handle one more? They won’t be this carefree forever. Oh, the thought of holding a tiny baby again!” That was a point for the pregnancy side of the debate.
But not long after, my daughter erupted into a dramatic fit, declaring, “I’M GONNA COUNT TO THREE AND AFTER THAT, I WON’T LOVE YOU ANYMORE! ONE! TWO! THREE! NOW YOU DID IT! YOU’RE A TERRIBLE MOMMY!” I quickly shifted my thoughts back to the menopause camp.
This internal tug-of-war continued throughout the day. Sweet moments inspired visions of baby booties, while challenging ones made me grateful for my current situation and relieved at the thought of no more sleepless nights. I was too apprehensive to share my thoughts with my husband; I feared his reaction might be a mix of shock and disbelief.
The next morning, my two closest friends stopped by for coffee. I mentioned my dilemma casually, as if I were discussing a potential new dress or the prospect of never buying clothes again due to financial constraints. Their jaws dropped, and before I knew it, we were off to CVS to buy a pregnancy test. They waited outside the bathroom door while I took the test, and a prayer slipped from my lips, “Please let it be positive, God.”
It wasn’t. A wave of relief washed over me. Giving birth at 40 and 42 was already a challenge, and the thought of doing it again at 47 felt daunting. Plus, we’re already stretched thin financially, and I have my blog—a new baby of sorts—that demands my time and attention. Yet, despite my relief, I couldn’t shake a tinge of sadness.
As women, we possess the unique ability to bring new life into the world, and the loss of that potential can be painful. Today, I find myself mourning a little. But then again, the thought of skipping out on trying that fantastic new brand of tampons isn’t so bad.
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In summary, the journey of considering pregnancy versus menopause can be emotionally charged and complex. It’s a mix of hope, fear, and self-reflection that many women navigate at this stage of life.
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