I have a complicated relationship with video games. On one hand, they enhance hand-eye coordination, foster strategic thinking, and provide my boys with a way to entertain themselves—especially during long trips. Picture a flight with two boys and no digital distractions; it’s enough to make anyone shudder. On the other hand, there’s that vacant stare of a boy who has spent hours eliminating virtual foes. Where did my spirited, curious child go? And who is this grumpy, sluggish version of him now occupying my home?
In today’s world, especially as of 2013, video games are nearly inescapable, and boys tend to get hooked much more quickly than girls. However, there comes a time when enough is enough, and it’s essential to get them back into the real world. Here are 20 activities my boys typically find more appealing than video games. While results may vary, these strategies have worked wonders for me.
- Put Them to Work: My youngest son surprisingly responds well to paid tasks. Consider hiring them for chores like weeding the garden or organizing the DVD collection—tasks that adults usually dread.
- Photo Time: My kids are endlessly entertained by browsing through their baby photos. They particularly enjoy looking at old family pictures, including Grandma’s younger days and my own awkward hairstyles from middle school (just avoid any embarrassing circumcision shots).
- Baking Together: Whipping up a batch of cookies or brownies can be a delightful way to bond. Expect a bit of a mess, but the fun and treats are worth it.
- Get Messy: Outdoor activities involving whipped cream, mud, or shaving cream can be great fun. Just be ready for a messy cleanup afterward!
- Invite a Friend Over: One boy without video games can be unbearable, but two can usually concoct their own fun. Just ensure they can’t rummage through your belongings!
- Let Them Paint: Boys will embrace the challenge of painting a wall. It’s a classic way to engage their creativity.
- Turn on the Hose: You might cringe at the water bill, but sometimes, a little outdoor fun with a hose is worth the expense.
- Dig a Hole: Whether it’s for a tree or just for fun, digging can be an engaging activity. Bonus: You can discreetly toss in their handheld devices for a temporary break.
- Run Errands Together: Take them on a grocery trip. Whoever spots the most vegetables can earn extra game time the next day—while the losers can help with dinner.
- Sibling Rivalry: Foster competition between brothers with contests. A little light-hearted competition can spark creativity and laughter.
- Pillow Fight: Scatter pillows around the room and let them have at it. Just be cautious—it may end in chaos!
- Balloon Fun: When a birthday party plan fell through, we filled the living room with balloons, resulting in an instant party atmosphere.
- Create a Short Film: Hand over a camera and let your child express their inner filmmaker. Just ensure your personal items are off-limits! Then, enjoy a family film night.
- Lemonade Stand: If you appreciate your neighbors, guide your kids in making lemonade. If not, let them tackle the task alone!
- Dinner Helpers: Get them involved in meal prep—tearing lettuce, rolling meatballs, or setting the table. Just be ready for some unexpected surprises!
- Laundry Time: Kids are fascinated by machines. Let them help with the laundry, but don’t expect them to fold neatly—socks may go flying!
- Car Wash Fun: Give them a bucket of soapy water and sponges. They’ll enjoy washing the car and might even think about how it looks good for the neighbors.
- Start a Garden: Sit back with a drink while they help to rake, dig, and water. Just be prepared for them to vanish when it’s time to weed!
- Acts of Kindness: Send them to help a neighbor. Just ensure the neighbor can distinguish your kids from potential intruders!
- Just Because: Sometimes, simply saying “because I said so” can be an effective way to get them engaged.
This article originally appeared on September 23, 2010.
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Summary:
Finding ways to engage boys outside of video games can be a challenge, but with creative activities ranging from baking to gardening, you can encourage them to explore their surroundings and build valuable skills. From contests to messy play, these ideas can bring your boys back to reality while ensuring they have fun.
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