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My Daughter: My Surprising Soulmate
by Laura Mitchell
Updated: Dec. 8, 2020
Originally Published: Sep. 19, 2010
It feels like just yesterday. I vividly remember peeling back the blanket that enveloped her, my heart racing as I caught my first glimpse of her tiny face. For months, I had envisioned this moment, and there she was, nestled in my arms. I gently brushed my fingers against her cheek, breathing in her sweet scent, and pulled the blanket aside for a better look. My hand found hers, and I marveled at her minuscule fingers as we met for the first time.
Who is this precious little one I am cradling?
She felt familiar yet completely foreign, a breathtaking blend of mystery and love. As my daughter transitioned from infant to baby to lively toddler, I became increasingly aware of our differences. Her vibrant red curls contrasted sharply with my dark hair, and her pale skin and delicate features stood out against mine. I often pondered if our personalities would mirror our contrasting appearances.
Those early, preverbal days were filled with both wonder and exasperation. She was headstrong, stubborn, and her temper flared easily. Sometimes, our connection felt so intense it nearly overwhelmed me, while at other moments, I felt like I was caring for a stranger. Who is this little girl I am raising?
Once she began to talk, my world was filled with an avalanche of questions. The floodgates opened with her first “Why?” and have yet to close. Now at 9 years old, she bombards me with inquiries daily—sometimes a trickle, more often a torrent. If a thought crosses her mind, it spills out of her mouth. With each question, I learn more about this wise old soul I’m nurturing. Who is this young lady now teaching me?
She continues to evolve in ways that highlight our differences. Our hair remains strikingly dissimilar, and she is growing into a remarkable young woman, soon to surpass my height. We now share a shoe size, yet thankfully, we still differ in taste.
Her intellect astounds me; she plays chess with skill, a game I didn’t master until my 20s. Her passion for history and love of books are impressive. She is inquisitive, with a keen analytical mind.
Yet, as she grows, so do I.
I’m realizing how deeply our souls are intertwined. I know her moods with just a glance and can sense when she’s on the verge of asking yet another question or holding back. I witness her kindness and thoughtfulness, alongside her stubbornness and desire for independence. She is assertive, intelligent, and genuinely wise beyond her years.
My daughter is my soulmate.
This understanding didn’t arrive overnight—there was no sudden epiphany at her birth. It was the countless conversations we’ve had that deepened my appreciation for this little soul who has graced my life.
Recently, while holding hands, I reached down to touch hers again. Gone are the tiny fingers that once instinctively clutched mine. She’s still my little girl, but her body is transforming far too quickly for both of us. Now, I hold the hand of a young lady whose hands are nearly as big as mine.
These days are filled with laughter as she tries on bras for the first time, and we both burst into giggles at our silly dance moves. We can ignite each other’s humor just as swiftly as our tempers can flare. She’s already mastered the eye roll that every girl seems to perfect in their teenage years.
Her curiosity remains unwavering. It was through her questions that I first began to forge a deep connection with her, cherishing the bond we’ve developed. She still approaches me with her inquiries, believing I have all the answers. Little does she know that she is the true teacher in our relationship.
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Summary:
In this heartfelt reflection, Laura shares her journey of discovering the profound connection with her daughter, who, despite their differences in appearance and temperament, has become her unexpected soulmate. Through countless questions and shared experiences, Laura realizes that the bond they share has deepened over time, revealing the ways in which they are more alike than she initially thought.
Keyphrase: My daughter is my soulmate
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