When my obstetrician asked my partner and me about our plans for circumcising our soon-to-arrive son, I instinctively turned to my partner, Mark. After all, I’ve never been in his shoes and didn’t feel it was my place to decide. Since he’s circumcised, he confidently said, “Yes.” Great—one less thing to worry about.
Then our little boy arrived.
During our pediatrician’s visit, we inquired about scheduling the circumcision. The doctor advised against it, explaining that since our son had a smaller foreskin, the procedure could lead to complications as he matures and experiences erections. We trusted the doctor’s judgment and decided to pass on the circumcision.
Once we brought our son home, we quickly realized that people had opinions. As he turned two, I’ve encountered all sorts of inquiries and concerns (which, by the way, are none of anyone’s business). Here are the top four worries I’ve heard and why they don’t hold weight.
- Doesn’t it bother you that he won’t look like his dad?
Mark has dark hair, while our son has a lighter shade. Mark has broad shoulders, and our little guy is quite slender. So, they already don’t match up in many ways. In fact, most folks say our son resembles me more than him. If we’re going to fret over them looking alike, why not consider other features, like noses? It seems rather trivial to fixate on identical anatomy. - He won’t resemble other boys.
Interestingly, many friends of mine have sons who are also not circumcised. Our pediatrician mentioned that the trend is leaning away from circumcision, making my son more likely to fit in when he reaches high school. In locker rooms, he might find himself in the majority, not the minority. Honestly, no two bodies are the same anyway, so why the obsession with uniformity? - Isn’t it hard for uncircumcised boys to maintain hygiene, leading to infections?
Are we really suggesting that boys can’t learn to keep themselves clean? If I can show him how to wash his hair, brush his teeth, and use deodorant when the time comes, I’m confident I can teach him proper hygiene for his penis too. Thanks for your lack of faith in both of us. - What about his future partner?
First off, I prefer to think of my son as a lifelong celibate. Isn’t that every parent’s dream? But when he does eventually find a partner, I trust they’ll be too excited about their connection to worry about his circumcision status.
Ultimately, my son’s anatomy is not up for public debate. But since curiosity persists, let me sum it up: His uncircumcised penis will be just fine, and honestly, I’m not concerned. If you find yourself fretting over it, perhaps consider taking up a hobby instead.
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In summary, the decision around circumcision is deeply personal and often surrounded by societal pressures and misconceptions. Trusting your instincts and consulting with your healthcare provider can lead to the best decision for you and your child.
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