When my youngest, Timmy, starts covering his ears as a loud guitar riff blasts through the speakers, most parents might lower the volume. But me? I instinctively reach for the camera.
For over seven years, I’ve embraced this habit without much scrutiny—until recently, when my observant child began to call me out on it.
On a typical chaotic evening, while Timmy was gleefully tossing his dinner—pasta, beans, and strawberries—on the floor, I grabbed my camera. I snapped photo after photo, desperately trying to catch that perfect mid-air shot, when I heard a voice of reason.
“Uh, Mom? Maybe you should stop him from throwing food instead of taking pictures,” my eldest, Lily, chimed in. Touché.
I’m grateful to have someone around to remind me of my parental duties. It leads me to ponder: what message am I sending my kids by constantly documenting their lives? Worst-case scenario, they might grow up thinking that capturing the perfect moment is more important than truly experiencing it. I recall vividly the day I forgot my camera at one of Lily’s ballet recitals. I grumbled in frustration until she simply said, “Mom, you’ll just have to watch me.” A powerful reminder.
It begs the question: am I managing to balance my roles as a family documentarian and a present parent? After years of capturing these moments, can I fully engage with my children without being distracted by the thought of the ideal photograph? Am I keeping these records for them, for myself, or does it even matter? Will my penchant for documenting every little thing lead to future therapy bills for my kids? And will they recognize my face if it’s not attached to a camera?
These are all legitimate questions for any parent wrestling with similar dilemmas. Personally, I’m willing to embrace the risks because I believe my intentions are good. I’m providing my children with a gift that also satisfies my creative outlet. I’m showing them that their lives, with all their ups and downs, are worth celebrating (even the messy parts).
As they grow older and face adult challenges, I can share stories of their childhood through my eyes. Hopefully, we will look back and chuckle at the delightful (and sometimes chaotic) journey we shared as a family.
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In summary, while I cherish documenting our family moments, it’s essential to remember to live in those moments too. Balancing the two can create a richer experience for myself and my children.
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