Yes, I admit it—I’ve indulged in a bit of online shopping. (No judgment, please; it’s all in good fun!) With the allure of coupon codes, free shipping, and those delightful boxes that arrive on my doorstep, I’d say it’s the perfect solution for someone who isn’t a fan of crowded malls. Plus, there’s a wonderful community of reviewers who generously share their thoughts on products.
Thanks to these insightful reviewers, I no longer fret about sizing, fabric quality, or whether the color will match what I see on my screen. However, one downside is that these anonymous opinions often expose how many women feel about aging and body image. Peeking behind the curtain of the online dressing room reveals a less-than-flattering reality.
Let’s look at some examples of this. Here’s what I found from a few major retailers:
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Review Date: June 26, 2015
Username: Fashionable45
Location: Columbus, Ohio
Age: 45-54
Gender: Female
“I would recommend this if you like a bit of flounce. When I was younger, the fit was perfect, but now I have a few extra bulges, and while the dress is made from lovely material, it made me feel a bit like a pumpkin. It’s well-lined and high-quality. I think anyone with a bright personality could rock this dress; good style is all about attitude, after all. But at this stage of my life, it just doesn’t suit me.” -
Review Date: May 19, 2015
Username: TrendyGrandma
Location: Southern California
Age: Over 65
Gender: Female
“This style is way too young for me. I’m almost 70! It’s a cute dress, but it feels heavy, too stiff, and too short. It seems too childish.” -
Another review:
“I bought this swimsuit for my trip to St. Kitts. I’m way past the age for being a Bond girl, but I love the suit (and so does my husband). I used the size charts and got an x-small, which fit perfectly (5’4”, 103 lbs.). The gold is sooo fun! Highly recommend.” -
One more:
“This dress has a fantastic design! It looks good on all shapes. The fabric has a nice weight because of the lining but isn’t stiff. I just wish it were an inch or two longer for those of us who are slightly maturing. I pair it with Capri leggings for a chic yet modest look. Love it!”
I understand that clothing is a personal choice. But please, let’s leave age and the false assumptions that come with it out of our shopping experiences. Forget the societal rules that dictate what you can wear at certain ages—like no white after Labor Day or miniskirts after 35. Your age is irrelevant in the dressing room. What matters is how the outfit makes you feel, no apologies needed.
I’ve been in similar situations. At 30, I felt self-conscious when a family member side-eyed my bikini while my niece cheerfully said, “I like your blue boobie thing!” At 42, I pondered whether to chop my hair into a “sensible bob” before my stylist chimed in, “I love it long!” And you know what? So did I! Now, at nearly 44, I contemplated whether I should retire my bikini (why do swimsuits always trigger this anxiety?). But then it hit me—a healthy lifestyle and some hard work can get you to places your 20s couldn’t.
I understand that sometimes clothes just don’t fit right. They can pucker, pull, or just not suit your body. But let’s remember, this has nothing to do with age or your self-worth.
So, when you take a moment to leave a review, please consider this checklist: Keep it objective. Focus your comments on the garment itself. And most importantly, evaluate whether the dress flatters you, not the other way around.
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In summary, let’s uplift one another and move beyond age-related criticisms in the dressing room and beyond. Embrace what makes you feel fabulous, regardless of the number associated with your birth date.
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