Dear Lily,
Congratulations! You’ve officially entered your teenage years. I thought you’d be bursting with excitement about turning thirteen, but instead, you seem a bit indifferent. I completely understand. The whirlwind of hormones, new challenges, and the pressure of middle school—and soon high school—can be overwhelming. You’re navigating your own identity in a world that often feels chaotic, and I can’t say I envy you. It’s a tough journey.
Just yesterday, you mentioned that birthdays don’t really matter, that they’re merely markers in a life that eventually ends. Hearing that was concerning, but I must admit I often wrestle with those same thoughts. I tried to offer some encouragement, but it didn’t seem to resonate at the moment. I hope you’ll reflect on this in time: your existence is far from insignificant. You are important. Your choices and actions have the power to impact the world around you. You have a higher purpose, one that promises lasting fulfillment. I pray you always remember that the light within you is extraordinary, and I can’t wait to see how it unfolds and influences the lives you touch.
I confess, parenting is daunting because I want to do right by you. The last thing I want is for you to need therapy due to my mistakes. I regret the divorce from your dad, and I hope you can find it in your heart to understand one day. Thank you for your grace during this time.
You possess a brilliant mind; please use it wisely. I appreciate your hard work in school, even when you feel it’s pointless and dislike being there. Just keep one word in mind: scholarships. They matter.
I wish I’d had your strength and awareness of social issues when I was your age. You’re passionate about equality, diversity, and even wanting a woman president, which is commendable. I’m proud that you care about deeper issues instead of just the surface-level things I focused on.
I know you sometimes feel embarrassed by my loud laughter and chatter in public. Trust me, I felt the same way about my mom! But know that those moments will pass, and you’ll look back on them fondly.
Honesty is vital. Please try to avoid lying; it only complicates things. I’ve been on both sides of the truth, and I promise I’ll respect you more for your courage to be honest with me.
As you explore who you are, remember I’m always here for you. You told me you never want to work or have a job—good luck with that! If you figure out how to make money without working, do share!
I’m grateful to have you as my daughter, even when you ignore me or make me feel like the worst mom. And I cherish those moments when we binge-watch shows together. If that’s not true love, I don’t know what is.
Always remember, I love you.
Love,
Mom
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