At the age of 18, I made a decision that would permanently alter my body: I got my first tattoo. Accompanied by a close friend, who opted for a blue star on her foot, I chose to have a 6-inch angel inked on my back. As I exited the tattoo studio, my skin pulsating beneath the protective plastic wrap over my fresh ink, I felt a rush of exhilaration and self-assurance. Though I briefly considered my mother’s potential reaction, I remained steadfast in my choice to permanently mark my skin with vibrant colors. The thought of future regret didn’t even cross my mind; my 18-year-old self was indifferent to what my older self might think.
Regret over tattoos is a common sentiment among many. Some individuals wish they had never made such a lasting change to their skin, while others lament the design more than its permanence. I understand this feeling of regret; however, my tattoo remains a source of pride. I have a history with regret, but when it comes to my tattoo, I feel none.
Surprisingly, I don’t regret that first tattoo at all. Despite being young and impulsive—characteristics that often lead to regret in my life—I find that my tattoo has stood the test of time, even if it has faded over the past two decades. Admittedly, the angel’s foot resembles something less divine, but rather humorous, and that brings me joy rather than regret.
In fact, I have since accumulated several additional tattoos, all of which I embrace. While I may not cherish each one equally, I do not harbor regret for any of them. “But they’re permanent!” some may exclaim. This permanence is precisely what I appreciate about them. In a world characterized by constant change, my tattoos serve as reminders of enduring aspects of life. They also help me maintain a light-hearted outlook, emphasizing that what truly matters lies within, rather than in outward appearances.
Concerns often arise regarding the impact tattoos may have on employment opportunities. However, as societal attitudes evolve and progressive workplaces become more accepting, the stigma surrounding tattoos diminishes. Research indicates that 23% of Americans have at least one tattoo, with the percentage rising to 32% among those aged 30 to 45.
As a parent, I consider the example my tattoos set for my children. Could I inadvertently encourage them to pursue tattoos at a young age? Perhaps, but I want them to understand that external attributes—whether they be tattoos, hair color, or piercings—do not define a person’s character. My tattoos demonstrate that being a loving parent transcends appearances.
If my children express a desire for tattoos when they are older, I will support their exploration of this art form. I will encourage them to reflect deeply on their decision and the permanence of their choice, reminding them that inner qualities matter far more than any external decoration. And I will ask them, “Can I accompany you?”
In conclusion, tattoos can serve as personal expressions of identity, and while they may provoke mixed feelings in some, for me, they are a source of pride and joy. They reflect my journey and remind me of the importance of embracing both the internal and external facets of life.
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