Last autumn, my son found himself under the golden October sun, proudly wearing his Boy Scouts shirt next to a table laden with various popcorn flavors his troop was selling. This annual endeavor serves to fund their Scouting activities and necessary gear for campouts.
At the local convenience store, my son joined his friends, all eager to sell popcorn. Their troop leader reminded them to be polite and friendly, advising against being overly aggressive in their approach.
As the day progressed, it became clear that many customers were annoyed by the sight of a group of boys in tan uniforms simultaneously asking if they would support Scouting. Several patrons hurried past, deliberately avoiding eye contact to sidestep the discomfort of saying no. While this was disheartening, a few individuals stopped to purchase popcorn or at least listen to the boys’ pitches.
However, one man’s behavior truly infuriated me. As he approached the table, he loudly proclaimed his disdain for Boy Scouting and vehemently declared that he would never part with his hard-earned money for their cause. He scolded the boys for “begging” and suggested they engage in “real” activities, such as sports. His rudeness was palpable, and after delivering his tirade, he stormed off, leaving the boys shocked and demoralized. Despite their disappointment, the boys maintained their composure and refrained from retaliating against his negativity. If it were up to me, I would have confronted that ill-tempered individual directly.
Here’s the reality: I share the common disdain for fundraising. I dislike being approached by family and friends with order forms for cookies, candles, or walk-a-thons. I find it uncomfortable to ask relatives to purchase items they don’t want. I often ponder if there’s a more effective way for sports teams and clubs to gather funds without imposing on others.
Yet, while I may dislike the act of selling for fundraising, what I truly cannot tolerate is the rudeness directed at children engaged in these efforts. There is absolutely no justification for adults to be unkind to kids standing outside grocery stores peddling cookies for their Girl Scout troop or candy bars for their sports teams.
Today’s children often lack the interpersonal skills that previous generations possessed, largely due to the influence of technology and social media. They spend less time interacting face-to-face and engage in far less verbal communication. Fundraising in public spaces presents an opportunity for children to overcome their fears of public speaking and learn essential social skills. The children sitting at tables in store entrances develop the ability to read body language, collaborate as a team, and take pride in their involvement in clubs and activities. When an adult behaves disrespectfully toward a child trying to break out of their shell, the impact can be devastating.
Moreover, it’s not the children’s fault they have to fundraise. They cannot influence their parents’ finances, nor do they set the costs associated with the activities they wish to participate in. While items like football gear can be expensive, and a weekend camping trip may strain a family budget, both experiences contribute significantly to a child’s development. Sometimes, that $10 spent on a box of popcorn or cookies can lead to a child experiencing a weekend in nature, learning crucial skills like fire-building. Adults need to recognize that undermining these eager, hopeful faces can have lasting negative consequences.
Shortly after the unpleasant encounter with the rude man, another gentleman approached the table. From a distance, he was already reaching for his wallet. He greeted the boys with a warm smile, asked them about their products, and listened attentively to their pitches while maintaining eye contact. He complimented their maturity and, with a sense of humor, pulled out $100 to buy a substantial amount of caramel popcorn, all while teasingly acknowledging his wife’s concerns about his diet. He shared, “I was a Scout once, and I was the kid who couldn’t afford to go on any trips. I try to give back every time I see Boy Scouts because that’s what it’s all about.”
Indeed, that sentiment encapsulates the essence of community support. As he walked away, arms full of popcorn, one of the boys remarked that he aspired to be like that man when he grew up. Tears welled in my eyes at that moment. Kindness is paramount, even when you’re rushing through your grocery errands.
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