By: Clara Johnson
“I’ve never even spoken to half of these people in my entire life,” my daughter exclaimed as she navigated the deluge of messages that flooded in around 2:30 PM, post-school hours. “Where are you? Why aren’t you in school?”
In that moment of mother-daughter connection, we laughed together, considering the wild rumors that might arise:
- Maybe she’s in some sort of confinement like in old tales; perhaps she’s pregnant and being sent away until she has the baby, destined for a new life with a nice couple from the North.
- Or, she could be starring in a reality show like “Teen Mom.”
- Perhaps she got caught in a bad situation, strung out on substances, and is now off in rehab, seeking recovery in a serene cabin by the Joshua trees.
Nah, none of that is true.
She’s simply enjoying her time at the local college library, learning in an environment that suits her.
If you had asked me if I’d ever consider home schooling my child, I would have laughed and said, “That’s impossible! I don’t have the time for that!” Yet here I am, and it’s not quite what I imagined. My youngest is completing her sophomore year through online classes. Whether you call it home schooling, customized education, or unschooling, she is thriving in an environment that feels safe and nurturing.
As I approached her after my classes, she was seated at a small round table, typing intently. For a brief moment, I thought I might see sparks fly. She radiated energy and enthusiasm; it was as if her very essence had transformed into a vibrant hue of sunny yellow. The empowerment she felt was palpable, even from across the room.
I found myself waiting for her to take a break before we could head home. The excitement was contagious—I had to suppress the urge to pump my fists and shout, “Yes!” This child, so beautiful and vibrant, was genuinely happy. A sense of common sense and restraint kept me from drawing too much attention.
By 1:30 PM, she had completed her work, focused and without distractions. There were no interruptions from peers or the need to shift her attention every 49 minutes to different subjects. Instead, she settled into a rhythm, fully immersed in her studies. It was pure academic creativity!
Gone were the worries of fitting in with peers, what to wear, or the fear of judgment. There were no crowded hallways to navigate, no bullies to avoid, and no frantic rush to get from one place to another. She was free from the burdens of traditional schooling.
The weight of outdated textbooks and societal expectations had been lifted. She enjoyed a nutritious lunch at her own pace without the anxiety of where to sit. Contrary to stereotypes, she didn’t spend her days in pajamas; she woke up early, maintained her hygiene, and engaged with others.
Let me tell you what else transpired.
- She smiled.
- She was calm.
- She was relaxed, without a twitch in her eyes, and her stomach was quiet—no discomfort to be found.
Surrounded by positivity, she thrived in this new light. She intuitively knew where she belonged and asked to embrace it, and I wholeheartedly agreed.
I acknowledged that this choice was a privilege, a luxury that not everyone has. I appreciate the opportunity to provide an alternative education that empowers her to learn in a way that suits her needs.
Some may argue that she needs to “toughen up” and deal with the challenges of traditional high school. However, I believe she has faced those challenges and found them detrimental to her well-being. When adults find themselves in negative environments, they can choose to leave. But children often lack that power, and the effects of those situations can be profound.
I believe in empowering my daughter to trust her instincts. By doing so, she will learn to recognize when to step away from negativity and move towards positivity.
Admittedly, I was uncertain about how this educational shift would unfold. While it requires sacrifices, I’m confident it will be life-changing for both of us. My daughter is incredible, and while others may miss her presence in traditional school settings, she needs to listen to her inner voice for now.
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In summary, home schooling has not only empowered my daughter but also transformed our lives. This journey has helped her discover her strengths, learn at her own pace, and ultimately thrive in a supportive environment.
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