Dear Alex,
As summer draws to a close, I find myself reflecting on the days gone by, eagerly anticipating the start of the school year while also grappling with the bittersweet nature of time. In my role as your mother, I’ve often felt torn between my responsibilities and my desire to fully engage in our summer adventures—those afternoons at the pool that I sometimes missed due to work commitments. I often wish I could reclaim those moments back, fearing that I might have rushed through your childhood too quickly.
I still vividly recall the tears I shed on your first day of kindergarten, watching you climb aboard that yellow bus, marking the beginning of your journey into the world beyond our neighborhood. Each milestone—like your first soccer game—reminds me of the fleeting nature of time. The national anthem still brings a lump to my throat, a poignant reminder of how quickly you are growing up.
As you prepare to embark on your junior year, I realize that we are approaching a pivotal moment in your life. With only two first-day photos left to capture and the reality of your impending driver’s license, I find myself wanting to freeze this summer and savor every moment. In light of this, I’ve compiled a few thoughts for you to consider as you step into this crucial year:
- No Do-Overs: This year matters significantly. By the time senior year arrives, it will be too late for second chances. College recruiters will have already made their decisions. Invest effort into your academics, athletics, and SAT preparations. Whether on the lacrosse field or in the classroom, give it your all.
- Be a Role Model: As an upperclassman, younger students look up to you. Your actions influence those around you, including your six little cousins who view you as their hero. Embrace this role by demonstrating kindness, honesty, and humility.
- Prioritize Family: While we may seem bothersome at times, know that your dad and I are here to support you. Engage with us—we have more wisdom than you might think. Remember to reach out to your grandparents; they cherish those moments. And don’t forget your sister, as she will always be part of your life.
- Make Wise Choices: I know you feel unstoppable, but one poor decision can have lasting consequences. Avoid drinking and driving, or getting in a vehicle with someone who has been drinking. Always feel free to call me for help. And if you engage in sexual activity, ensure you practice safe measures; birth control is also a shared responsibility.
- Consider Your Future Career: While it may seem distant, the workforce is approaching faster than you realize. Reflect on what you enjoy and how it might translate into your career. Whether you see yourself in an office, on a sports field, or in nature, hold onto those passions.
- Enjoy the Journey: This year, while still challenging, offers a unique opportunity to relish your high school experience. Attend football games, hang out with friends, and indulge in pizza. The realities of adulthood will soon come knocking.
As you begin your junior year, I trust that I’ve provided you with a strong foundation to pursue your dreams. You stand at the threshold of adulthood, and while I will always cherish your childhood, I am excited to see the man you are becoming.
With love,
Mom