On a recent morning, I received a call from my daughter’s science teacher. She expressed concern that my daughter, who usually excels and enjoys the subject, was struggling. The teacher noted that my daughter had been visibly upset during class and seemed to withdraw when more challenging topics were introduced. After our discussion, I was taken aback by her revelation.
My daughter confided in me that she felt too intimidated to admit her confusion to the teacher. She mentioned it was simpler to remain silent and cry rather than seek clarification. She expressed embarrassment about raising her hand in front of her classmates. Her words struck a chord: “Mom, I’m just not as strong as you. I don’t know how to speak up like you do.”
In that moment, I understood that while I may be outspoken, I had overlooked the fact that my daughter needed guidance in cultivating her own voice. It dawned on me that articulating one’s thoughts is a skill that must be nurtured. I realized it was time to equip her with the necessary tools to express herself confidently. I aim to help her assert her needs without being harsh or unkind. My goal is to empower her to navigate the world with assertiveness, just as the women before her have done.
As I reflect on the opportunities awaiting her, I am committed to instilling strength and confidence in my daughter, enabling her to confidently carve her path. Here’s how I plan to do just that:
1. Encourage Her to Avoid Unnecessary Apologies
While it’s essential to apologize when someone is hurt or wronged, I want to guide my daughter to eliminate phrases like “I’m sorry, but…” from her dialogue. I want her to recognize that her opinions are valid and that she never needs to diminish her contributions with an apology. Women should feel empowered to voice their thoughts and ideas without unnecessary qualifiers.
2. Foster Critical Thinking and Questioning of Authority
If my daughter feels unjustly treated, whether on the playground or in the classroom, I encourage her to articulate her feelings and assert her position, even if it means speaking up to an adult. By learning to express her frustrations early, she will be better prepared to advocate for herself in more significant situations, such as negotiating for a promotion or a raise.
3. Help Her Understand She Is Not Obligated to Smile
When my daughter confidently walks down the street, I want her to know she is not required to respond with a smile or engage with anyone who catcalls her. She should feel in control of her body and choose how to respond to compliments or comments. It’s perfectly acceptable for her to have off days without feeling the need to mask her emotions with a smile.
4. Empower Her to Speak Up in Uncomfortable Situations
One day, my daughter encountered a stranger during a neighborhood walk and instinctively chose to be polite, despite her unease. From that experience, we have been practicing assertive responses and phrases she can use if she feels threatened. We are working on helping her discover and project a powerful voice to safeguard herself when necessary.
5. Guide Her in Finding Her Community
Recently, I took my daughter to a themed book release event, and upon seeing others dressed similarly, she exclaimed, “These are my people!” I want her to always recognize and cherish those who uplift and support her. Life is too brief to surround herself with individuals who fail to enrich her existence. I hope she will value her friendships and nurture those connections.
A few weeks after our conversation about her hesitations in class, my daughter burst into the kitchen, her face glowing as she held her math test with a perfect score. As I embraced her, my heart swelled when she declared, “I’m going to speak up more often, Mom! This feels amazing.”
In conclusion, nurturing a daughter who speaks her mind involves teaching her the importance of self-expression, confidence, and the right to assert her needs, all while finding her community.
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