The air was thick with humidity as I stood with my children, eagerly awaiting a live band to take the stage at a family-oriented music festival. I was thrilled not only to revisit my college days but also to introduce my children to the joy of live music. At ages 10 and 13, they were at the perfect age to enjoy this experience with my husband and me, and they had yet to witness “concert Mom” in action.
As the heat enveloped us and the crowd surged closer to the stage, I reflected on how much time had passed since we last attended an event like this. Gone were the days of strollers, strict nap times, and packing baby essentials. This newfound freedom was exhilarating. I glanced at my son, his face lit with excitement, and smiled at my daughter, who was practically bouncing with anticipation despite being obstructed by taller concertgoers.
As the band began playing, I noticed my daughter, particularly captivated. I attempted to lift her to get a better view, but the crowd’s tightness made it challenging. Spotting a small gap near the front, I gently guided her forward to see the band up close while I maintained my position a few people back to respect the other concert-goers. Her face radiated joy when the lead singer engaged with her, and her delight was infectious. I reached for my phone to capture the moment, but before I could take the photo, a woman abruptly blocked my view.
“Is that your little girl?” she yelled over the music. When I confirmed, she launched into an angry tirade about how children had no place at such events, claiming her night was ruined. Stunned and disheartened, I quickly pulled my daughter back to where my son and husband were standing. The rudeness displayed by that woman lingered in my mind, reminding me of the importance of empathy, especially toward parents of younger children.
As parents of older children, it’s easy to forget the challenges of raising little ones. Our experiences with strollers and diaper bags may be far behind us, but I’ve made a promise to always extend compassion toward those who are still navigating that stage. I will allow a mother with a toddler and newborn to go ahead of me in line for the restroom. I can wait. I will offer my assistance to a mother struggling with a toddler and an infant, saying, “I’ve been there.” I will support my friends with young children by helping them at appointments when they might feel overwhelmed.
I’ll never forget the feelings of frustration that come with being chastised by an impatient adult, who has likely forgotten that their own children once struggled to see over the crowd. And when I find myself as the older parent at a concert, I will be the one offering my shoulders for a child to see the stage.
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In summary, the transition from parenting young children to older ones can often lead to a lack of understanding of the challenges faced by those still in the thick of it. It is vital to carry empathy and support for parents navigating these trying times.
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