Another Form of Illness: A Reflection on a Societal Malady

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There are some experiences that, once witnessed, cannot be forgotten, no matter how much we wish we could erase them. Recently, I viewed footage of a tragic police incident that left a young man dead. The emotional impact was immediate and profound. I felt a chill run down my spine, my throat tightened, and tears streamed down my face.

Watching such events imposes a sense of responsibility upon us. It compels us to confront uncomfortable truths and recognize the narratives that often accompany these tragedies: “He posed a threat. He had a troubled past. He was a criminal.” There is a part of my mind that might seek solace in these justifications, attempting to create a divide between myself and the victim. I might think that by distancing myself, the burden lightens. But this mindset is not just misguided; it’s fundamentally flawed.

We cannot find comfort in viewing those who have suffered—like Alton Sterling, Freddie Gray, and many others—through a lens that diminishes their humanity. To do so is to overlook the greater issue at hand and fail our collective moral obligation.

As a white woman, I cannot fully grasp the experiences of being Black in America. However, empathy should not be confined by race. We must stand in solidarity with our fellow humans during their suffering. We must resist the urge to rationalize these tragedies. If you catch yourself using terms that seem to excuse such violence—thug, criminal, threat—take a moment to watch the footage again. Consider the fundamental rights that should be afforded to every individual. What happened to the process of arrest, due diligence, and fair treatment?

This is not merely a personal battle; it is a societal illness. I have shared my journey with breast cancer, a personal struggle, but this issue is a different kind of cancer—one that infects our society and manifests in episodes of brutality. It is easy for some to ignore it, allowing it to silently permeate our lives. These incidents of violence are symptoms of a deeper ailment. We cannot achieve healing until we acknowledge that we are afflicted.

My experience with cancer taught me the importance of identifying the root cause of my suffering. We must confront this issue head-on: racism. We must be willing to be vulnerable, to admit our weaknesses and seek help. This journey requires us to nurture our souls with truth and empathy, even if it means sacrificing our comfort and complacency.

During my illness, those who loved me shared in my struggles. They were my support system, offering their time, energy, and presence. Their compassion made me feel less alone in my fight. I want to extend that support to my Black brothers and sisters, particularly for those who must teach their children about navigating a world filled with dangers that shouldn’t exist. I believe, as Martin Luther King Jr. said, that “No one is free until we are all free.”

As I work on healing from my own cancer, I find myself disturbed by this societal ailment. Watching that video is akin to receiving a grim diagnosis.

What can we do? In truth, I feel overwhelmed. The issues are vast, and I often feel like a small drop in an ocean of despair. But then, I attended a performance by a local youth arts academy, founded in response to social injustice. The message was clear: the power of music can be a healing force.

Watching a diverse group of students sing together, I felt the collective energy of unity. The finale was a powerful anthem that resonated deeply with all in attendance. As I looked around, hands were joined across divides, and tears flowed freely. This experience illustrated the healing power of community and empathy.

As I drifted off to sleep that night, I couldn’t shake the words: “Let there be peace on earth, and let it begin with me.” We must reject the notion of “the other.” There is only us, and we must embrace our interconnectedness. As one of my favorite authors, Lena Thompson, often states, “We belong to each other.”

This is a crisis. This is a societal malady. How many more lives must be lost before we truly awaken to this reality?

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In summary, we are confronted with a societal illness that requires our attention and action. By acknowledging our shared humanity and standing together, we can begin the process of healing.

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