Parenting Insights
Updated: Aug. 1, 2016
Originally Published: June 23, 2016
Since becoming a parent, I’ve found myself navigating life in ways I never expected. My approach to daily routines and my overall mindset have transformed in pursuit of being the role model my children need. I’ve tapped into a well of inner confidence, demonstrating to them that I embrace who I am, cherish the body I care for, and take pride in my endeavors. It has been my aim to show them the value of hard work, the significance of resilience, and above all, the importance of family and love.
However, I’ve come to realize that amidst all these lessons, I have overlooked a crucial aspect of life: the acceptance of imperfection. Let me clarify—I am not perfect, and I openly recognize that reality. I have insecurities and aspirations, and on any given day, I might be more deserving of a “Most Improved” award than a “Most Likely to Succeed” title. Yet, to my young children, aged 5 and 1.5, I am a superhero who can conquer anything. They are aware that there are areas where I excel and others where their dad shines, but they truly believe we can overcome any obstacle. This week, I started questioning whether this perception might be doing them a disservice.
Our former nanny, who had been part of our lives for four years, visited us last week. After she left, I noticed my son, visibly upset, biting his lip and fighting back tears. As I comforted him, I was struck by the realization that he had never witnessed me cry before. I, who am easily moved by heartfelt moments on television, had shielded him from this reality. When I finally shed a few tears, he looked at me in shock, searching for reassurance. I smiled and said, “It’s OK to cry. Even Mom cries sometimes.” While initially confused, he began to feel comforted by my honesty and lightheartedness.
In my quest to be a positive role model, I had neglected to illustrate an essential part of life: the acceptance of failure and imperfection. Therefore, I’ve resolved to show my children the authentic side of life. I will share not only my triumphs but also my struggles and setbacks, how I cope with disappointment, and the reality that tears are a natural part of our journey.
By revealing my imperfections, I can demonstrate how I rebuild my confidence. When I share my mistakes, I show them what true strength looks like. By admitting to the responsibilities I sometimes dislike, I can teach them the value of accountability and pursuing passions. I hope to convey that challenges are part of life and essential for developing a strong work ethic. Most importantly, despite life’s ups and downs, love and family remain steadfast.
So, to my dear children, I apologize for not showing you the entire picture. Let’s embrace this journey together and learn that it’s perfectly acceptable to acknowledge our flaws.
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Summary:
In this heartfelt reflection, I share my journey toward embracing imperfection as a vital part of life and parenting. By revealing my flaws and struggles with my children, I aim to create an environment where they learn the importance of resilience and authenticity.
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