As a young girl, I was captivated by my mother’s wardrobe. The vibrant colors and textures of the 1980s, especially her dazzling outfits and iconic red patent leather heels, left a lasting impression on me. I would often sift through her clothes and accessories, even creating my own fashion magazine collages from Young Miss magazine that decorated my bedroom walls.
In 1985, after saving my allowance, I proudly purchased a pair of pink Converse sneakers, which I wore with colorful hair bows and scrunchies. While my mother didn’t allow me to wear pantyhose and blue eyeshadow at age five, she recognized my passion for all things feminine and supported me in my pursuits.
Now, as a mother to a daughter who mirrors my childhood enthusiasm, I find joy in our shared love for fashion. Whether we are shopping together or she’s directing me on how to pose for photos, these moments strengthen our bond. Although some may dismiss fashion as trivial, for my daughter, it is a source of joy and creativity. I am grateful for this connection, especially as she approaches the challenges of her teenage years.
My daughter is undeniably a “girly girl.” She delights in dressing up, dancing, and aspires to be a fashion designer, a basketball player, and a veterinarian. I wholeheartedly encourage her ambitions—not simply because of our similarities, but because they reflect her authentic self. From an early age, her interest in Barbies was apparent, yet I also provided her with a basketball hoop and toy cars, recognizing her diverse interests. However, her preference for feminine pursuits is unmistakable.
If my daughter were more of a tomboy or preferred quieter activities like reading, I would support those interests just the same. My goal is for all my children to embrace their true selves without fear of judgment. I want to cultivate their passions and strengths to help them flourish as individuals.
As they grow and change, I will introduce them to new experiences while consistently encouraging their core interests. I never want them to feel that their uniqueness is inadequate or unwelcome. What truly matters is that they find fulfillment and contentment in their choices.
I will always champion my daughter’s identity, regardless of how it manifests. I want her to feel strong and intelligent, even if she enjoys experimenting with fashion and aesthetics. Feeling empowered is essential, and her interests are just one of many facets of her identity.
Moreover, I intend to use her passion for fashion to impart an important lesson: that true beauty comes from within. Our self-perception shapes how we present ourselves to the world, irrespective of our clothing choices. Of course, I must admit, and I’m sure my daughter would agree, that wearing a stylish pair of shoes never hurts.
In conclusion, every child’s interests deserve respect and encouragement. Whether they lean towards the girly, sporty, or intellectual, fostering an environment where they can express themselves freely is crucial for their development and self-esteem.
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