Dear Daughter,
Let’s be clear: it’s not a silly nickname or euphemism. It’s your vagina. I brought you into the world, and I won’t undermine its significance with cutesy terms.
Your vagina is just one part of a fascinating system, but it’s essential to understand it properly. While your vagina may seem like the focus, the real excitement and complexity lies in other areas, like the clitoris. Think of the clitoris as the star performer, while the vagina is simply the stage.
You might hear friends calling it “fluffies” or “pinkies,” and I get it; it can feel awkward. But as you grow, it’s crucial to know that one day, you’ll face situations where clarity matters. You will need to communicate about your body confidently. When you’re older, you’ll encounter intimate moments, and it’s vital to be able to say things like, “This is my vagina.” It’s essential to understand the responsibilities that come with sexual relationships, including the risks of pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections.
This conversation isn’t just about anatomy. It’s about owning your identity and understanding the world around you. If I can’t speak openly about your body, how will I address the challenges of life, like setbacks or triumphs?
Life will present tough truths, from the complexities of relationships to the realities of adulthood. For example, marriage involves both conflict and forgiveness. We must acknowledge that life can be messy, love can be complicated, and sometimes you’ll have to make difficult decisions.
You’ll learn that some of the best things come with discomfort—think of medical check-ups or even emotional challenges. Truth doesn’t hurt, but the realization that you’ve been misled can be painful.
As you navigate life, remember that comparison can be enlightening, though often humbling. Embrace commitments, whether they be to pets or relationships. Don’t ignore important signals, whether they be financial or health-related.
Your vagina is just one aspect of who you are, but it’s a powerful part. I want you to feel confident and knowledgeable as you move through the world. One day, it will just be you and your body, and I want you to feel empowered to figure things out.
As you prepare for adulthood, understand that the world is complex and often governed by those who may not share your perspective. Yet, it’s your journey to navigate, and I’m here to support you without shielding you from reality.
So, as you grow, embrace your body and all it represents. You’re equipped to soar, and I can’t wait to see where you go.
With all my love,
Mom