As someone who grew up in the late 20th century, I recall a different approach to childhood discipline. Back then, there weren’t any smartphones or tracking devices, and my parents often had no clue where I was. The idea of “helicopter parenting” was nonexistent, and it was common for adults in the community—be it a shopkeeper or a nearby parent—to correct us when we acted out. They never felt the need to apologize to my parents for intervening, and we usually listened. I believe this played a significant role in keeping many of us from making more questionable choices.
Recently, while at the park, a woman approached me to apologize for disciplining my son. He had been pushing her daughter, and she felt compelled to intervene while I was occupied with my own child. I expressed my gratitude, reassuring her that she was actually helping me. More importantly, my son needed to understand that his actions were unacceptable, and he did. Had that adult chosen to ignore the situation, my son might have thought his behavior was acceptable and continued down that path.
Most parents would likely agree that if they are present, they wouldn’t appreciate another adult disciplining their child. However, I believe there are appropriate times to speak up, done in a respectful manner without resorting to shouting. I am committed to addressing harmful behaviors in children, regardless of their age. If I see a child engaging in actions that could harm themselves or others, I will intervene, and I welcome others to do the same with my children. If my child is disrespecting you, please feel free to address it. If they are unkind to another child, I encourage you to prompt an apology. And if they’re engaging in unacceptable behavior on your property, don’t hesitate to let them know.
The saying “it takes a village to raise a child” resonates deeply with me. As children grow older, having multiple adults keeping an eye on them becomes even more vital. When kids realize that their actions are being monitored by others, they tend to be more mindful of their behavior. I certainly was, and I want my children to be aware of the impact their actions have on others. How can they learn this if no one speaks up out of fear of offending the parents?
Every child, no matter how well-behaved, will inevitably test boundaries, sometimes when parents aren’t around. Ideally, other adults will recognize this and step in. It’s important to remember that just because a child makes a mistake doesn’t define their character; good kids can make poor choices. The hope is that feeling embarrassed after being corrected will deter them from repeating the same mistake.
Thus, if I see a child about to make a poor decision, I won’t hesitate to intervene. If I notice a child harming another or themselves, I will act. Yet, I will also respect personal boundaries and refrain from interfering over minor disagreements. Thankfully, there were adults in my life who cared enough to guide me when I strayed.
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In summary, fostering a community of accountability around our children is crucial. Encouraging respectful interactions among adults and children alike will help shape responsible individuals who understand the consequences of their actions.
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