It feels like just yesterday when I was contemplating choices regarding breastfeeding versus formula, cloth versus disposable diapers, when to initiate potty training, and how to discipline effectively. Fast forward to today, and my daughter is navigating the complexities of seventh grade, where the stakes are significantly higher.
Twelve is a remarkable age, showcasing a spectrum of behaviors: while my daughter envisions herself in a Harry Potter adventure and still enjoys dolls, many of her peers are already exploring dating and even sexual activity (a reality we must face, whether we like it or not). I consider myself fortunate that she shares her daily experiences with me and seeks my advice on her concerns. I strive to answer her questions with honesty and realism.
Just yesterday, she recounted an incident where a boy in her class snapped a girl’s bra, prompting her to ask how she should handle a similar situation. I pondered my response, knowing I could take various approaches, but ultimately opted for a straightforward answer—one that would equip her for the future. However, I feel it is necessary to inform parents of boys about my advice.