When my friend Sarah described her child’s recent birthday bash, she exclaimed, “It was incredible! They even had a food truck!” I have to admit, food trucks do add a unique charm to any gathering, and who wouldn’t enjoy gourmet meals served from a miniature vehicle? But let’s be real: does a toddler truly appreciate dining on cage-free chicken nuggets while careening down a massive inflatable slide shaped like the Titanic? My son might not.
Perhaps my pragmatic nature is shining through, or maybe I’m just a somewhat stern parent, but I question the necessity of extravagant birthday celebrations for small children. Before I became a parent, I believed that over-the-top birthday parties were reserved for the elite—think Beyoncé or the extravagant displays seen on certain reality shows. Yet, as I began to hear tales from other parents about parties featuring hired Disney princesses, balloon artists, and even reptile exhibits, I felt a pang of concern for my wallet. What happened to simple gatherings with friends, family, cake, and ice cream?
Reflecting on my own childhood, I remember birthday parties filled with balloons, cake, laughter, and running around the backyard with friends. There were no inflatable obstacle courses or hired entertainers. I never felt deprived because my parents didn’t arrange for a snow machine in July or bring in the cast of Frozen to perform for me. Sure, I might have wished for Han Solo to attend my ninth birthday, but I understood that was a tall order. What I truly cherished were the memories with my family and friends, and that’s what I want for my son.
I aim for my son to have equally memorable birthdays, but I firmly believe that the trend of competitive and extravagant birthday parties isn’t for us. I don’t want to instill the idea that he needs more and more on his special day. In our household, excess will not equate to love. I hope he experiences more genuine affection from family and friends instead. Thus, we will keep his celebrations simple—balloons, party hats, cake, ice cream, and the usual fare.
In the future, if he requests it, I might consider a clown or two, but a full-fledged theme park experience is out of the question. My toddler doesn’t need to celebrate his birthday as if it’s a grand spectacle, nor do I feel the need to impress others by hosting an elaborate event to showcase my affection for him. I would do anything for my son—except hire Lady Gaga and Tony Bennett to perform a birthday serenade.
These extravagant parties seem more about the parents than the children. While my son may have a remarkable memory for Gene Kelly films, I doubt he will recall the specific details of his 2nd birthday as he grows up. He finds joy in the simplest of things, like playing with cardboard boxes, so the need for extravagance is really unnecessary.
And later, when he’s flipping through old family photos before heading off to college, if he were to ask, “Mom, why didn’t I have a life-sized Millennium Falcon and a legion of Stormtroopers at my 2nd birthday? Didn’t you love me?”—would I feel guilty? Perhaps a little. But like a responsible parent, I would explain, “That year, you loved blowing bubbles! We had a bubble-blowing party! Honestly, we couldn’t afford the spaceship and Troopers because we allocated our resources for your dad’s birthday party instead.”
In conclusion, simple celebrations filled with love, laughter, and family are what I believe will create lasting memories for my son, rather than extravagant displays that serve more to impress others than to enrich his life.
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