I can see your excitement bubbling over as you’ve been up since the crack of dawn. I appreciate your restraint in not barging in until the sun was fully up, despite your Minecraft adventures just outside my door.
In just a moment, you’ll be tearing into your Christmas gifts. The wrapping paper will fly everywhere, a cup of hot cocoa will likely spill, and Styrofoam peanuts will find their way to the dog, sticking to him all day long.
Before you dive into the chaos, I’d like to take a moment to share some thoughts. Please, hold the eye-rolls; it’s Christmas, and I have your attention, if only for a brief moment.
In all honesty, I wasn’t able to purchase the gifts I truly wanted you to have this year. But if I could, here’s what I would give you this Christmas:
- A strong sense of individuality: The bravery to carve your own path, voice your beliefs, and resist the pressure to conform. Remember, fitting in is far less important than having a clear conscience as you close your eyes at night.
- A sense of wanderlust: A desire to explore new places and embrace different cultures. I wish for you to throw away rigid itineraries and dive into the excitement of spontaneity. Leave your devices behind sometimes and soak in the beauty of the world around you—breathe in that fresh pine, enjoy the crisp air, and truly be present.
- A never-ending supply of curiosity: I hope you continue to ask questions throughout your life. If you ever hear, “We do it this way because that’s how it’s always been done,” challenge that notion. Embrace your inquisitiveness.
- A commitment to kindness: Especially towards one another. Your siblings will always be your fiercest allies. No one will have your back quite like they will. Remember, a brother’s support is invaluable.
- The gift of serenity: An understanding of spiritual life, not necessarily tied to religion. Let go of worries about things beyond your control. Trust in something greater, and learn to appreciate what you have, rather than what you lack. You don’t have to shoulder the world’s burdens alone.
- A good sense of humor: Keep sharing your laughter, smiles, and hugs with others. Be the first to extend your hand in friendship and spread positivity. Don’t take life too seriously; those who do tend to be quite dull.
- An eagerness for lifelong learning: Stay open-minded and willing to grow. The world is full of wonders when you view it from various perspectives. Stagnation is never a good place to be.
- Lastly, know that I will always be there for you—except perhaps in the boys’ locker room: I am your anchor, your guiding light. You are incredible gifts to me.
Now, you may proceed to unwrap the other gifts waiting for you beneath the tree.
Best wishes,
Mom