Before becoming a parent, I held certain misconceptions about breastfeeding, largely influenced by the unrealistic portrayals of nursing: that it is a seamless experience, devoid of pain, and that every baby will be compliant. The belief that mothers can effortlessly nurse while multitasking—cooking, managing toddlers, and even blogging—was a fantasy I bought into.
As a proud advocate for breastfeeding, I can affirm that it’s often not as straightforward as envisioned. For parents of infants with reflux, nursing can be particularly challenging. Below, I present a structured 21-step nighttime nursing routine that may help ease the process for those navigating this situation.
- Awaken to the soft sounds of your baby’s cooing. Manage to rise before the cooing escalates into a full-blown cry.
- Make your way to the rocking chair in darkness, ensuring minimal light exposure to avoid waking the baby further. Secure a nursing pillow around your waist, and keep burp cloths, towels, and wipes conveniently nearby.
- Politely request a glass of water from your partner, as nursing can induce an unquenchable thirst.
- Position the baby at your breast.
- The baby may initially nurse well but will soon exhibit signs of discomfort. Observe for signs such as arching back or rapid breathing to interpret whether he is still hungry or if he needs to be burped.
- Attempt to nurse again.
- Should the baby unexpectedly spit up, realize that he may require burping instead. Try to hold him upright while milk spills—this may be distressing for both of you, so have your burp cloth ready.
- Gently pat the baby’s back until you feel a release of air, at which point, one of your shoulders may be wet with spit-up.
- In the dim light, shuffle to the changing table, noting that his pajamas are now soiled with milk.
- Remove the wet diaper and notice the unexpected spray of urine; it’s more challenging than anticipated.
- Switch on the light.
- Quickly secure the diaper and clean nearby wet surfaces with a baby wipe.
- Dress the baby in fresh pajamas.
- Place him back in his bassinet. However, turning on the light might have inadvertently woken him, making him alert.
- Try to ignore the alertness for 15 minutes to catch a brief moment of rest.
- Listen for any distressed sounds. If the baby begins choking on his spit-up, respond quickly to clean him up.
- Attempt to lie back down.
- After a short while, wake up to more grunting, signaling that it’s time to nurse again.
- Repeat steps as necessary to manage the nursing process.
- Ultimately, you may decide that it’s acceptable for the baby to sleep in a slightly damp diaper with remnants of milk on his face.
- Assure yourself that it’s just for one night; tomorrow, you will wake up revitalized and ready to tackle the day.
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Summary
Nursing a baby with reflux can be a complex and demanding experience, requiring patience and adaptability. Following a structured routine can help alleviate some of the stress during nighttime feedings.
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