As parents, we often brace ourselves for the moment our child befriends a peer whose parents we find difficult to connect with. But what happens when the issue lies not with the parents, but with the child? Regardless of how close the friendship may be, there’s only so much one can tolerate of situations like “Your child just bit mine” or “Your kid is monopolizing every toy like a tiny dictator.” It can strain the strongest of friendships.
How does one approach the sensitive topic of disliking a friend’s child? Sometimes, honesty is the most effective approach. With that in mind, here’s a light-hearted, yet candid letter template to address this awkward circumstance. (Please note: This letter is meant for humor and cathartic release only. It’s essential to show kindness toward your friends and their children, despite any challenges you may face. Nevertheless, we’ve all encountered a child like this at some point. Enjoy the exercise of imagination.)