I use the term “former” in the hope that time has softened your heart.
Anyone who grew up in my small town would likely agree on one thing: you were the most notorious bully in our class. Your reign of cruelty extended from elementary school through high school, and even continued sporadically in college. Thankfully, I wasn’t your only target, which might have made it unbearable. I often watched as many of our peers fell victim to your harshness, enduring your unpredictable and manipulative behavior.
The Sophistication of Your Bullying
Your form of bullying in elementary school was alarmingly sophisticated for your age. You had a knack for drawing girls into your circle only to quickly shut them out again. Your peers yearned for your approval, which you would grant momentarily before turning against them. Your hurtful words inflicted damage on young girls who should have been carefree, not worrying about their self-image. Do you need a reminder?
You once followed a girl home from the bus, singing “Baby Beluga” loudly. You cruelly labeled a 10-year-old as “pizza face” when she began struggling with acne. You falsely accused two girls of kissing in the fourth grade, when they were merely dancing and being children.
The Extent of the Harm
The extent of the harm you caused is likely beyond your comprehension. I managed to avoid your wrath in middle school, but you still made life difficult for those already facing challenges. You targeted kids who were different—the girl who cut her hair short, the boy who hadn’t yet shed his baby fat.
High School Harassment
High school, however, saw me back in your sights when I started dating the ex-boyfriend of one of your friends. The harassment was relentless: nasty remarks in the halls, egging my car, and hateful messages on my phone. Ironically, you were far crueler than the girl who felt wronged; it seemed you just wanted a target.
Even in college, I faced the occasional harassing message from your acquaintances, which always traced back to your social circle.
Reflections on the Past
I wish I could say you never cross my mind, but updates on social media and hometown gossip often bring your name up. Each time, people share their own painful stories about your cruelty, which remain etched in their memories. Recently, I heard you are married and have a child, and my hope is that you are raising that child to be kind.
As a mother myself, I’ve learned that children are not born mean; they are either taught to be unkind or they lash out due to unmet emotional needs. This leads me to wonder what drove your cruelty all those years ago. Did you lack love, acceptance, or attention? In some ways, I feel sorry for you.
A Call for Kindness
Yet, I also worry for my own child, who will inevitably encounter someone like you on the playground or in the halls. So I ask you, as a fellow parent—let’s break this cycle. Nurture kindness and compassion in your child, and I promise to do the same.
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Conclusion
In summary, I hope for a kinder future for all our children, free from the cycle of bullying and cruelty.
Keyphrase: former bully letter
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