Recently, I found myself reflecting on the lessons my children might have gleaned from their grandfather, especially during a moment filled with nostalgia. It was a rainy evening, but the downpour was nothing compared to the storm of emotions I felt as I stood outside my daughter’s school. Rather than hurrying in with my family, I decided to let them go ahead while I parked the car—something I believed their grandfather would have done. This was the first Grandparents Day without him, and the weight of his absence felt particularly heavy.
My children, Emma and Jake, are at that tricky age where they can be self-absorbed and moody. However, I hope that the experience of losing their grandfather to lung cancer—a journey that involved extensive treatment and hospital stays—has imparted some meaningful lessons. Here are three core teachings I hope they will carry with them:
1. Energize Every Day
Growing up, my father would enthusiastically declare “EED!” before we embarked on our weekend errands. It wasn’t until my teenage years that I realized it stood for “Energize Every Day!” My father’s enthusiasm was infectious; he was always ready to tackle the day, having already prepared breakfast and a list of tasks. Despite the stresses he faced, he approached life with a positivity that I want my kids to emulate. I hope they understand the importance of maintaining a positive outlook, even during challenging times.
2. Savor the Simple Pleasures
Family gatherings often featured Alaskan king crab legs, a tradition my father cherished. He would buy the crabs and set up a feast that involved cracking the legs open and savoring the delicious meat. In doing so, he demonstrated the importance of enjoying life’s simple pleasures and sharing them with others. Even as he went out of his way to share with family members who preferred easier meals, he never compromised on the enjoyment of the experience. I want my children to recognize the value of thoroughness and generosity in all their endeavors.
3. Embrace Kindness
My father had a unique habit of saying “bless you” at the most unexpected moments, whether it was a sneeze, cough, or even a hiccup. His intention behind each blessing was to express care and warmth. As I observed him become too weak to continue this practice, I realized how much I had taken these small gestures for granted. I hope Emma and Jake understand the significance of intentional kindness in their interactions with others. Such gestures can create a lasting impact, as they did with us.
As we commemorate Grandparents Day, I encourage you to reflect on the lessons imparted by your own grandparents. If you’re considering starting a family or exploring home insemination options, check out Cryobaby’s home intracervical insemination syringe kit for comprehensive guidance. For more information about pregnancy and the home insemination journey, Healthline offers excellent resources to support your endeavors.
In summary, the lessons from my father go beyond simple anecdotes; they embody essential values of positivity, appreciation, and kindness that I hope my children will carry with them throughout their lives.
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