I recently came across an article about unique crying rooms at a hotel in Tokyo, and I found the concept both intriguing and thought-provoking. Initially, I dismissed it as a quirky idea, but as I reflected more, I recognized how beneficial such a service could have been during certain challenging times in my life.
The Mitsui Garden Yotsuya hotel offers 12 designated crying rooms exclusively for women—a choice that raises questions about inclusivity and the potential impact on business. These rooms provide comforting amenities like soft sheets, tissues that feel like cashmere, warm eye masks, make-up remover, and a selection of emotional films designed to evoke tears. Sign me up!
Several years ago, my mother was diagnosed with a severe form of endometrial cancer. Her health declined over nine months, and eventually, she passed away. Living on a different coast and in a different country made it difficult to visit her, yet I managed to do so as often as possible while balancing my own family and job commitments. That year was incredibly tough, and the grief only intensified after her passing.
During that time, I lacked a private space to express my sorrow. I found myself stealing moments to cry—often in public or semi-private places. I wept in my office with the door closed, flinching whenever the phone rang. I shed tears silently on the train, staring out the window, or in the shower where I thought I would be alone.
As a parent of young children, I wanted to shield them from the depths of my grief, which would have been too overwhelming for them. My partner, while supportive, was not equipped to handle the emotional weight I carried. I wished for a space where I could fully release my sorrow—a crying room with cozy, white sheets, gentle tissues, warm eye masks, and the option to watch heart-wrenching films would have been ideal. My partner would have gladly taken care of the kids so I could take advantage of such a space. Although traveling to Tokyo for this experience is impractical, I would certainly consider a local option for around $85. If I could do this today, I would definitely want to choose the films, steering clear of Forrest Gump (one of their selections).
Here are a few films that come to mind:
- Terms of Endearment
- Longtime Companion
- Ordinary People
- E.T.
- Life Is Beautiful
- 12 Years a Slave
- The entire series of Parenthood
In conclusion, the idea of a crying room resonates deeply with me. It sounds like a wonderful sanctuary for emotional release.
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