When I was pregnant with my first daughter, my labor experience was quite laid-back and prolonged. We didn’t rush to the hospital when I started feeling contractions. Instead, my partner prepared a warm bath for me, and I listened to calming hypnobirthing tracks I discovered through HypoBabies. Unfortunately, once we arrived at the hospital, my labor stalled at nine and a half centimeters dilated, leading to a grueling three-and-a-half-hour pushing session. I was drained and in severe pain, but with my doctor’s guidance, we achieved a safe and beautiful delivery.
Fast forward three years, and we were eager to welcome a second child. Interestingly, my two kids ended up having due dates just one day apart. When it came time for labor again, I felt a lot less anxious, probably because I knew I could handle it after my first experience. However, the reality turned out to be completely different than I anticipated.
My doctor had warned me to prepare for a quicker delivery this time. Despite my first labor lasting three and a half hours, my OB/GYN insisted, “I think this time you’ll have a fast labor, so you should get to the hospital early.” I was skeptical, as I was still comparing it to my initial experience. But on my due date, when labor began, I quickly realized we needed to head to the hospital as soon as possible.
That morning, I woke up around six feeling tightness and pressure in my abdomen, similar to my first pregnancy. After timing my contractions, I noticed they were becoming more intense and closer together, signaling that it was time to go. We decided to gently wake my two-year-old daughter, Mia, explaining the situation in a casual way, as if we were friends sharing exciting news.
As we made our way to the hospital, I couldn’t shake the thought of possibly having to deliver in a Lyft. However, I managed to stay calm, reminding myself of the calming techniques I had learned. Once at the hospital, I was amazed at how quickly things progressed. With just one powerful push, my second daughter, Lily, was born.
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