As the holiday season approaches, discussions about the Santa Claus myth often arise, prompting me to reflect on whether I fall into the category of those who choose not to perpetuate this story. The question is, do I belong to the group that opts for honesty with children?
I anticipate that this perspective may not sit well with my in-laws, parents, or some friends. Nevertheless, it is essential to scrutinize the justifications for upholding the Santa Claus myth.
Tradition is frequently cited as a reason for continuing the Santa narrative. However, many traditions are not inherently beneficial simply because they are longstanding. While it’s true that traditions can create bonds within families and foster cherished memories, secular households may often feel overlooked in this regard, lacking the rituals that accompany organized religions.
My family celebrates the season with our own meaningful traditions. We enjoy selecting and decorating a fresh Christmas tree, listening to an eclectic mix of holiday music, and baking a variety of cookies, including my grandmother’s famous recipe. Our family gathers on Christmas Eve, sharing a meal that includes a deep-fried turkey, sausage-apple-cranberry stuffing, and delightful wassail. We exchange gifts, sing carols, and my father reads “The Night Before Christmas,” just as he did for me in my childhood. All of these experiences contribute to our version of tradition, and none of it requires Santa Claus to be meaningful.
My intention is not to shield my son from the Santa myth but rather to expose him to diverse stories from around the globe. Myths serve a purpose in inspiring and delighting us, regardless of their factual basis.
Some argue that believing in Santa Claus represents the essence of childhood magic, claiming that denying this belief would rob children of joy. However, this perspective seems narrow. My son enjoys a holiday filled with love and joy, and he won’t be damaged by not believing in a mythological figure delivering gifts. There are countless children from various backgrounds—Jewish, Muslim, Buddhist, atheist—who have grown into well-adjusted adults without the expectation of gifts from a mythical Santa figure.
Reflecting on my own experiences, my parents maintained the Santa Claus illusion, yet I don’t feel it enriched my childhood. I remember a neighbor dressing up as Santa, but the experience felt disconnected from my reality. The true treasures of my childhood are the traditions—decorating the tree, singing songs, and spending time with family.
The drive to impose the Santa myth on children may stem from our desire to recapture the innocence of childhood. Yet, I find fulfillment in celebrating the joys of family unity and the return of the sun during this season.
Isn’t that magic enough?
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In summary, while the Santa Claus myth holds significance for many, it is essential to recognize that meaningful traditions and joy during the holiday season can thrive independently of it.
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